My highschool boyfriend and I dated for 5 years, he cheated on me and we have been broken up for almost 2 years now. We are both 25 and in totally different places then we were the last time we were together. I just got out a relationship and he is looking to rekindle a friendship/relationship. I love this man like no other, I forgive him for what he did, but cant forget it. He told me he a wants chance to be friends again and see where it goes. I never stopped wanting to be with him and never stopped loving him. We went to dinner last night, he was sooooo nervous and it felt great to have the upper hand for once. I dont know what to do. I dont want anything right now with ANYONE! Has anyone ever been through this, where they just knew they belonged with someone but something went wrong and broke you apart? There are so many other guys, why would I get stuck on this one, let alone give him a second chance? He is constantly in my life, with family and social events.
2006-08-02 04:28:18 · 5 answers · asked by Belize 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It happens alot to people. Sometimes you don't get to choose who you love you just love them. It may be hard to have a relationship that has already had the trust broken once. Do you really want to start that way with something forgiven but not forgotten. I would just take it slow see how it feels. If it feels right give it a chance. If not then just tell him thanks but no thanks and move on.
2006-08-02 04:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by miss_nikki214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive kinda been through the same thing....I went to college while being in a relationship with my boyfriend from highschool. I didnt know he was cheating on me with a girl at his school till months later...So broke up with him. But since we were in the same group of friends back at home I couldnt avoid him. Last year when i came back home for christmas break, id just broke up with my other boyfriend. Then my boyfriend from high school told me he still has feelings for me. I thought about it for a while before i decided to forgive him and i realized that I too still had feelings that never left me. I did give him a second chance but i had the hardest time trusting him again. So after a while i broke it pff. Trust is the biggest factor in a great relationship. You have to trust your guy to be in a relationship. Hope this helps.
2006-08-02 11:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by qtgirliexox008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the issue. Go out with him for a little while -- totally DATE, and see if you feel that you can trust him. If the little voice in the back of your head keeps reminding you of how he hurt you, you should probably break it off with him and take time to really get over it. Good luck!
2006-08-02 11:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by tinatambers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question. Move forward not backward.
2006-08-02 11:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
similar think happened with me.... she was so much into my family .. so much lovingand caring.... this girl used me for 8 months... later she said she doesn't to be with ANYONE... stilll she was with me... later she kicked my *** to get away from me.... she turned out to be a.................................... and even walked back to her ex....
2006-08-02 11:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by hell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋