I met this guy last wed. He has 3 jobs and goes to school fulltime. He told me "don't blame things other men have did to you". I really tried to for get my rules. We spent the whole weekend together, he even met my friends. At the last hour on Sunday I gave it up. . Which I never do. I usually wait month. I called him, he did not pick up. I texted him, he texted back me. I myspaced him back yesterday how was you day he has not myspaced me back. I tried to make contact 3 times and he has not contacted back. he took me off his top 8. I said I would go to his club thing tonight. I made plans with my friend to go. What if he pulls another girl in front of me? Can I even meet guys there? Why did he change his feelings? He stole my friends on top of that. One is still on his top 8. What’s the best game plan for the club? What happens if he hangs out with my friends and not me? What do I do at the club Iam not in to planing games. He even made more plans to see me soon.
2006-08-02 03:42:03 · 24 answers · asked by Nice girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 20 he is 21. We met at a club.
2006-08-02 03:46:59 · update #1
But he just wrote on my friend's page. Mr. Fast Runner with a lil bit of privilige??? LMFAO!!! What does that mean? lol !! It cant be good the way u spit it!!!lol!!! Yea U will see me again...SORRY for stealing your lil booty partner ;-)!! We can trade... I will give you Her back once in a while... and Jon gets to come out with me! Fair Exchange right? lol!! ttyl!!
2006-08-02 04:34:57 · update #2
I hate to say it but, it sounds like a lesson learned. Sorry. I guess stick with your gut about these issues cause it seems your normal judgement went cloudy cause of this guy.
2006-08-02 03:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by QuestionsAnswered 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to read this : I met this guy last wed. He has 3 jobs and goes to school fulltime. He told me "don't blame things other men have did to you". I really tried to for get my rules. We spent the whole weekend together, he even met my friends. At the last hour on Sunday I gave it up. . Which I never do. I usually wait month. I called him, he did not pick up. I texted him, he texted back me. I myspaced him back yesterday how was you day he has not myspaced me back. I tried to make contact 3 times and he has not contacted back. he took me off his top 8. I said I would go to his club thing tonight. I made plans with my friend to go. What if he pulls another girl in front of me? Can I even meet guys there? Why did he change his feelings? He stole my friends on top of that. One is still on his top 8. What’s the best game plan for the club? What happens if he hangs out with my friends and not me? What do I do at the club Iam not in to planing games. He even made more plans to see me soon.
2006-08-02 03:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you got played. You should have waited. Men do not respect that even though that is what they want. They think you are a trashy who** when a woman gives it up too quick. Next time, make him wait for a longer time. That is the best way to tell if the guy is really interested in you or what is between your legs. Go to the club and flirt with other guys if he plays games.
2006-08-02 04:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no doubt been played with. Trouble is that you sound like you really have a crush on this guy. What you need to do is to be the big girl you are and understand that you are chasing after a shadow of the man you have dreams about. Go look for a real man, this one, as said above is just a shadow of a the man you want. Forget about him. And remember to refine your grammer.
2006-08-02 03:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by kombo6m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got what he wanted and moved on to the next. Counting them down in his top 8 myspace perhaps. Why would you go to his club thing? Sounds like your setting yourself up for a big plate of hurt.
2006-08-02 03:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an immature idiot! He didn't respond to 3 attempts at contact. YOU GOT PLAYED
I'd take an aids test, pregnancy test and go back to the 1 month rule. But you may want to make that a 3 month rule.
Good luck
2006-08-02 03:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You met this guy a WEEK ago. He's not gonna steal your friends, and he's not interested in doing that, nor in having anything to do with you. Yes. He played you. When a guy talks about how, "other guys might be jerks, but I'm nice," he's a jerk. Stop thinking about him. Stop trying to get in contact with hm. Find someone who likes you way more than you like them.
2006-08-02 03:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by LSD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got played and he got what he wanted. its quite possible the "friend" who is in his top 8 said something to him about you and this could have turned him off towards you. id bet this "friend " who is in the top 8 is going to be there tonight as well. I'd check it out and show up and see how he reacts and what he does. Good Luck!
2006-08-02 03:52:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Top 8? You got played. Learn from it. He might have stayed a little longer if you had not given it up so quickly, but he would have left as soon as he got it.
2006-08-02 03:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok while a female is doing this they want to renowned in case you truly like them and could no longer supply up and head in the direction of a clean female. common game rule: do no longer supply up. stay interior the sport. the sport will ultimately be over and he or she'll be yours(: additionally in this game do no longer play hard to get. that's her activity. Do issues that instruct her your no longer giving up on her. i desire you win(: solid success
2016-10-01 09:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋