I have started to date a guy whose divorce was just made final. It is very important for me to know what sparked the divorce, but how do I approach it. Suggestions please. Thanks.
2006-08-02 03:41:10 · 8 answers · asked by rizzio 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most of the time a divorce is because the man has found her unfavorable which includes sex and her behavior and her persona.
If a female lacks in any of these areas a man will drop her quickly.
2006-08-02 03:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
timing is everything. If he "just" got divorced the would maybe to fresh for him to want to discuss with fairly new acquaintances. Also, bear in mind you may never know the real reason. For instance I divorced my husband 20 years ago because he was both verbally and physically abusive. Last time he hit me I almost died. He punched me in the stomach and ruptured my spleen. It had to be removed! My point is do you think my ex told any of the women he has since been involved with the real reason we divorced. No, he made up lots of interesting stories I'm sure to have the women feel sorry for poor him. Be careful...be very careful!
2006-08-02 04:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hon i am a pretty straight forward person so i would suggest shoot straight from the hip, just ask him. if he wants things to go anywhere between you being up front is a must, suppose he was a wife beater, or he was unfaithful or is a drunkard or drug abuser or whatever, suppose he has a disease that his wife couldn't deal with, find out what happened before you proceed, you will not know how to deal with the future adequately if you don't know about his past, i can't say it enough find out also if the divorce was messy, are kids involved, how well does he relate to his ex wife, girl i hope you are not a rebound thing. anyhow all the best.
2006-08-02 04:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by diva anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shouldn't be ready to get into a new relationship until a year after his divorce for one thing.*
all you have to do is ask, i would start with which one of them asked for it.
2006-08-02 03:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by vebyllucs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me on this one when the time is right he will tell you, don't push the issue cause it will just piss him of. He will let you know when he is ready.
2006-08-02 03:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by barbwire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do is to ask him straight out, if he wants you to know he will tell you, if not let it be, it may mean he isnt ready to confide in you.
2006-08-02 03:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will find a way
you need to ask, or it will happen to you too
2006-08-02 03:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it comes up in conversation just ask...
2006-08-02 03:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋