I'm really left speechless by this lady but I fear to tell her, let alone getting close to her! Please help.
2006-08-02 03:22:45 · 9 answers · asked by jom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how you feel, I have battled shyness my entire life. But one thing that I have learned is that regret hurts more than rejection. If you fear the rejection and never take the chance, then you will regret it for the rest of your life. If you take the chance and get rejected, at least then you will know, her attitude towards you may even change your feelings for her. And you never know, she may really like you and things could work out.
2006-08-02 03:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by FH 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
If you don't approach this woman and let her know your feelings then trust me she will remain just a dream. Humour is a great ice breaker. So perhaps you can loosen up the conversation by being humourous before discussing more serious things, ie: both your feelings. Invite this lady out for a coffee or light meal and then go and sit somewhere that you both feel comfortable at. Ask her what she thinks of relationships and if she might be interested in having a relationship with you.
Best of luck to you and please attempt to get over your shyness with this lady a bit. If not you'll be watching this lady going out with someone else.
2006-08-02 10:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get rid of the shyness u can not think about
what u r going to say when u see her, u just say it.
If u analyze it shyness will bring up the fear.
I over came my shyness because I missed a lot of
opportunities in life because of it. I came to under-
stand that the longer I took to plan the less I did.
So I started by breaking loose by saying things as
soon as they came into my head. Not thinking about it twice.
2006-08-02 10:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you need to boost your confidence, people are usually shy because they lack confidence....question is how do u become more confident...well for starters, work out, be confident about the way you look. Put on a bit of muscle if you dont already have some. Go out and buy some nice clothes that you feel comfortable in and you look good in. Go out and practice talking to girls, start going for a low standard, i dont mean you need to pull them. Just talk to them. Then you'll feel fine about talking to this dream girl.
2006-08-02 12:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by whoknows 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really get tongue tied around here say it in a letter or a text or something! Or even ring here!!!! Not having to make eye contact when you're doing these things often helps!!!
Just tell her what you feel and leave it up to her to reciprocate or reject your advances - Good luck
2006-08-02 10:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
iv had shyness befor when i was younger you had to look at her and bite your lip at the same time talk to her if you dont you will never find out how she fell about you [SO IF YOU WANT HER JUST GO UP TO HER AND TALK]
2006-08-02 10:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by do it good 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*In your dreams* it shouldn't be a problem. I never seem to have any trouble picking up honeyz in my dreams, in fact there is normally more than one. Shame I never get to see them again though. But, what can u do, eh.
2006-08-02 11:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by Rockhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deal wit it step by step,u can write her a lletter telling her how u feel n make sm1 give it to her
2006-08-02 10:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by khadeeja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just come out and tell her how you feel and then go from there
2006-08-02 10:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by firecopbill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋