it seems like i have to make hte first move because when i was watching a movie with him i really wanted to kiss him but i didn't want to freak him out and he didn't try anything so i didn't. then i confessed and he said he felt the same way btu didnt want to come on too strongly-- now i'm gonna see him for the first time in amonth at themovies but i dunno if hes still interested because i always have to initiate the interactions- even this one. i haven't seen him in nearly a month so things could have changed? i don't know if i should make amove or not!
2006-08-02 03:03:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it seems like i have to make hte first move because when i was watching a movie with him i really wanted to kiss him but i didn't want to freak him out and he didn't try anything so i didn't. then i confessed and he said he felt the same way btu didnt want to come on too strongly-- now i'm gonna see him for the first time in amonth (because he was ina different country) at themovies but i dunno if hes still interested because i always have to initiate the interactions- even this one. i haven't seen him in nearly a month so things could have changed? i don't know if i should make amove or not!
2006-08-02 03:09:58 · update #1
You said you confessed and he said he felt the same way - so in a sense you already made the first move.
Maybe he's shy and doesn't know what to do. Instead of just jumping over and kissing him, ask him how he feels about you. You can ask him if he is interested in pursuing a more intimate relationship, talk about it and if the feeling is mutual you can stop worrying about who is making the move on who because you'll already know where you stand.
People are always in such a hurry to get physical and forget about the lost art of courting. The beginning of a new relationship is exciting so don't be afraid to take your time and enjoy it instead of rushing into something. You'll find that if you move slowly, the relationship will be a much more rewarding experience.
2006-08-02 03:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by Tamborine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do know there are ways to give the signals. Take his arm and softly rub your hand up and down the fore arm. say in a sultry voice. "I really missed you" and look into his eyes a long time. Maybe a hand up to his cheek but dont pull him close instead just linger there. If he really does not get it by then or makes a move ask him. "Whats wrong babe" with the concern I am sure is in your heart showing clearly in your eyes. You know some of us guys are a little dense or afraid of hurting your feelings. All the things above shows you are interested and open to his advances. He just is rather shy and afraid of hurting you emothonally or maybe even physically, or of rejection All the above will help. Let him then decide now that he knows that the door is open.
2006-08-02 10:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by admiralgill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just take it easy for now..Don't come on too strongly because a guy may take advantage of that and think you're easy, or the guy will think of you as a girl who is slutty (which is definitely not true). Talk to him about it, straighten things out..COmmunication is the key thing in a relationship, and if you don't have any..well...you get my drift.
Hopefully, if this was true, and meant to last, then it wouldn't be any different if you haven't seen him in a month. But, I don't really k now...so...haha.
Just try to go along with it and see what happens. Good luck to you.
2006-08-02 10:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by anu_dew2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, when you meet up with him, look at him if he still looks at you the same way he did a month ago, and just be yourself and talk to him, ask him what he did within the last month and try to find the answers from the questions your ask him. that way you should be able to find out if he's still interested. And let the guy make the move lol since you're the one who likes him, so if he makes the first move you wouldn't reject him.
2006-08-02 10:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's already told you that he wanted to kiss you. So, he's interested. Could be he's a bit shy and that's why you have to initiate things. Why are you waiting a month to see him, though?
Call him and make it to the movies sooner, like tomorrow night...
2006-08-02 10:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl he's interested and don't be afraid to make the first move because then he will not be so shy and will eventually start initiating once he feels that comfort level!
2006-08-02 10:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by souljagirpart2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U'll kno if things are still cool wit ya'll. Go ahead and make the first move. Bt after that he'll have 2 initiate sumthing.
2006-08-02 10:06:28 · answer #7 · answered by AfroSistah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rent the movie (Hitch) and get a clue on how to make it look like he made the first move.
Lean in toward him, and let him kiss you.
2006-08-02 10:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes interested why has it been a month since he has seen you? I find this odd to say the least
2006-08-02 10:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first talk to him casually.Then ask him if he's bin goin on with sum1.If not ask him if he likes u.
If s then i would say go inside the theater and make ur move don't worry he ain't giina freak out like u think
2006-08-02 10:16:32 · answer #10 · answered by Soul Blazer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋