can u please help me ..and tell me whats goin thru this girls head?
ok i like this girl..can somone help me?
shes 13 im 15...she used to be all over me...then i started liking her back..and she backd off..im the first guy ( of many future ones ) to hit on her........i askd her out about a month ago and she said idk.....she seems really distant and like she is nervous or shy or scared around me...like the way she talks to me..is totaly different then the way she talks with other guys..like she wont flirt or nething nemore...but occasionaly shell look a glance at me..butt when ever somone sees she turns away real fast.and when i talk about different girls..she seems to take more notice.....she also told her friends that she mite like me...now she's telling them she doesnt'..but her mom and her are very close....and her mom said she said sumthing completely different.........should i believe her friends or her mom...she seems really distant..almost like she doesnt want to talk to me..... .do u think shes just scared or doesnt like me ..or what???????????
2006-08-02 02:42:23 · 18 answers · asked by your mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh she likes you alright......LOL
She is just scared and nervous.
She flirted and got your attention and now that she has it she is back tracking because she really does like you but is shy or playing hard to get.
Trust in what her mother said and not the girl friends.
A mother does not usually tell a lie about things like that, she wants her daughter to be happy.
Ask the girl out to the movies or ask if you can come over to her house to study, play games whatever works.
Since her mom has told you that she likes you then it should be ok with her.
Spend time with the girl on her own turf ( her house) where her other friends wont be around. See if things click between the two of you and then go from there.
2006-08-02 02:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this girl you like has ever been in a relationship before, and that she's scared. I think she does like you, she shows a lot of symptoms in that, but you should first ask to be her friend, so you can start gaining some trust, then later, when you're real good friends, you can ask her out again, see how it goes.
Good Luck
2006-08-02 09:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by Sofi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's very young. She doesn't know how to act. I think she's scared of what saying yes to going out with you (or even liking you) is going to lead to. She likes you, but she's not ready for what liking someone means - like maybe she thinks it will mean she will have to get more physical than she wants or would be confortable with. She definitely likes you (believe the mom), but you are the first guy to hit on her and she's nervous and scared and shy. If you really like her and want to pursue this, you will need to be mature about this and talk to her. Tell her you like her and you just want to spend more time with her that's all. Tell her you know she is 13, but you don't want her to act different or do things she doesn't want to do, you just want to be around her, you just want to like her and talk to her. You need to put her at ease, and talk to her like a nice friend who likes her, not like a horny guy who isn't sure what to do.
2006-08-02 09:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by sick of him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she's very inmature, and because she's only 13. Maybe now that she got your attention, she has moved on. If I were you, i would just talk to other girls and forget about her. She's not the last girl y ou'll like or hte only one. Don't waste ur time on this little girl.
2006-08-02 09:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's 13 and this is all new to her! The flirting, the boys, just be he friend for now and don't worry about it. It is very awkward age for both of you. Just calm down and relax, you and she will go through plenty more experiences just like this one.
2006-08-02 10:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by surelycoolgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE'S CHANGING!!! she might be losing interest in things that she used to like. I have this friend and she used to love me a lot, like she loved me more than any of her friends, but now we barely talk, and everything is different and it started with her being more distant.
2006-08-02 09:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by tschneuer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, girls (some of them) are attracted to the guys that pay no attention to them at all. That is probably why she was so into you when you didn't notice her as much. Try avoiding her and talking to other chicks...it might work....
2006-08-02 09:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by Ja mone` 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her hormones are saying one thing and her brain is saying something else... she wants to test the waters but is afraid to.. she is young & will figure it out on her own...just be friends.. and find someone a little older..
2006-08-02 09:51:02 · answer #8 · answered by cinsaint1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this happens all the time. when someone starts to grow up.. they find someone else that they are interested in.. and she lost interest in you. is all. I dont think she likes you anymore. I think someone else caught her eye. and is flirting with her back. and that gets her to think shes got it in the bag. so she is trying to give you the idea that she doesnt want that with you.
2006-08-02 09:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_poetic_fire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a little while. patience is a virtue, and she's still a baby... when she's 14, she'll be a lot more mature. u'd B suprised what happens in a year. trust me, im 14, i know.
2006-08-02 09:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋