is THIS okay??

Question

for the longest time i was always trim, thin & fit... yet in the past few months or so i've put on ALOT of weight!!! like i was 165ish now i'm between 206 & 217... most of the weight i have gained on purpose!! plus my fond love for sweets (which i binge on ALL the time) & my lack of exercise helps my "gaining" ;-)

anyway, i see my dr. soon & am worried. also, my all of my clothes have busted or are too tight it cuts my circulation. i am only 17 so i don't have any health effects besides my fair share of stretch marks on my inner thighs & side of my waist. yet, i just love the way my belly is so nice bein full & flabby!!!

i hope this is quite alright. becuz as i said i am perfectly content wit my weight... and plan to continue my weight gain!! becuz there is nothing better than flesh & folds on myself... or on another woman in my oppinion. so i hope to hear some invaluable insight on what you guyz think of this. for i'm not THAT overweight & i am quite attractive! peace erich ;-D

and is it attractive??

i'm 5'10 too...

Answer 1

Have you ever seen a 300 pound, eighty year old man or woman? I haven't. Do you know why? because fat people die young. And they die young because being fat is unhealthy and deadly.

Answer 2

I don't mind a thick person, as opposed to thin, but what I have come to recognize are the issues one becomes to thick...to me that would be when your skin is stretched beyond its elasticity and you develop stretch marks.. besides being unsightly my main concern is why you've allowed yourself to become like this...what I have come to recognize is there usually are unresolved emotional issue that are being pacified with food...a compulsive behavior...something that if not confronted will remain as some sort of dysfunctional behavior...even if you address the weight issue, it then becomes something else, like a gambling problem or a over spending issue...So what I am trying to say is its OK to be thick but when it becomes excessive...there probably bigger problems associated with your eating than your growing waist line...and that's when it effects me as a partner.

Answer 3

honey, u r only 17 n all that weight in u i think thats too much not to be mean n all but u weight more than my mom she weight beteen 160-165 n she's only 30yrs old i think u should start execersing n start eating well teah now u think u look fine n feel fine but wait for few weeks n u would see that gainnig weight was a bad thing to do in a early age

Answer 4

I have a male cousin who started out like you did
& now his heart is in BAD condition & so are his
arteries
he's had a couple bypass operations on his heart &
he's only 50 years old , but the Dr. told him his heart
is like a 90 year olds !

please get help & stop doing this to yourself or you
will be so sorry in your future when it's harder to
change your weight

take care

Answer 5

I think you're psicologicly healthy, but dont go too far, don't rely on the fact that you're young, i think the best you can do is keep enjoying the pleasure of eating (i love it myself) but do work out (i do it my self).. its all about keeping the blood circulating and the metabolism high

Answer 6

what height are you? if your 6'0 i suppose that an ok weight if your under and only 17 you need to loose weight fast. do it when your still young. but its all down to your body type. heed the doctors advice

Answer 7

Do you have a fat fetish? Well there is someone for everyone.... not many people for a single beefcake! sick sick sick. if you want to beef up drink double quarter pounder milk shakes. go to mcdonalds and buy 3 of them. blend it with 1 scoop ice cream. its GOOD and fat hea;thy as well

Answer 8

Lose weight, I would not even consider going out with you.

Answer 9

Whatever floats your boat. Well, in your case, sinks it.

Answer 10

Whatever makes you happy.