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in other words, what are the signs a man should look out for?

2006-08-02 02:26:05 · 16 answers · asked by lonesomelover 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Depending on the woman, flirting may come in several different forms. There are long, seductive stares; extended smiles; and exaggerated laughter. There are also bouts of excessive conversation and more specifically, the words used during those conversations.
The art of flirting by women is done in a number of ways, so let's explore some of them.
Women are much more subtle about flirting than men, so the physical clues aren't always obvious. Guys are not accustomed to getting a lot of attention from women, and certainly do not get approached often. So recognizing a flirtatous move can sometimes be a bit tricky.
Here are some signs to help you determine that she is flirting with you:
* Making the first move
Women hardly ever enjoy making the first move. When they do, it means the interest level has been raised. However, don't expect a woman to flag you down and desperately ask for your attention. Most will never allow themselves to be placed in that position.

* Extended looks and stares
While not considered rude in most countries, Americans usually take offense to staring and extended gazes. But in these circumstances, men don't mind those extended looks. When a women gives you more eye attention than usual, she's already gathered physical facts and is letting you know that you're worth looking at.

* No personal space
People are picky about personal space and women know this. Some women will narrow the distance between a man and herself if she's flirting with him. This could be done while walking, while sitting, or while standing and having a conversation.

* Body language
Probably one of the most difficult suggestions for men to pick up on. A woman's body language may not be sexually suggestive enough for you to make a determination about her interest in you. But some key signs are: tilting the head while talking; clasping the hands behind her back while talking; and touching you or your clothes, while talking.
The flirting that women do is mostly harmless. If she is seeking more than just a friendly banter of conversation, she will surely let you know.
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2006-08-02 02:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by super_sexy_amazona 4 · 2 1

Oh, jeez...there are SOOO many ways. Firstly, I recommend you read Superflirt (by Tracey Cox). That's self-explanatory.

When I flirt, I tend to laugh more, smile more, and kind look at the guy that I'm flirting with. I'll also invade his space when I'm talking to him (very subtly, of course) and be a little touchy-feely. Another flirty sign: high heels. The higher, thinner, and strappier they are, the flirtier they are. You can also tell if someone's flirting by the body language. Like, if a girl is getting close to you, chances are that she's flirting. Or, if a girl flashes you her wrist--that's subconscious flirting. Also pay attention to the way her legs are (...and I don't mean what's between them! lmao..). Like if they are crossed, what's her leg on top pointing to? Whatever it's pointing at..that's the object of her attention right now. The sashaying of hips is also another sign of flirting..MAN there are SO many ways a girl can flirt with a cute guy.

Seriously, go read Superflirt. It is SO helpful!

2006-08-02 02:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by anu_dew2000 3 · 0 0

There are many signs to look out for, but first i must ask are you sending her these signals as well, i think you should both bite the bullet and get it together.

But signs that she likes you
her face will light up when she sees you
she will smile alot
constant glances, and if you catch her she will look away then look back to see if you are still looking
wet her lips to make them look appealing - sure fire sign that she wants you to kiss her
biting and nibbling her lips givens the same impression
touching themselves as if hugging themselves, caressing around the neck, breasts, thighs indicates this is where she would like you to touch her!
when you are talking at close range or in a group she would lean toward you or listen intently all the while nodding and aggreeing with things you say, or nodding and smiling with her head at a slight tilt
when standing feet are usually pointed toward where where you want to be
and the other person will mirror image with you, meaning they will probably try to follow everything you do, this is usually on an unconcious level though.
she will be forever grooming her apperance, whether it be smoothing her hair, straightening her clothing or something similar
she will blush if you 'accidentally touch' her in anyway, and a smile will play upon her lips

There are other signs, but usually its a good indication that she wants you, if any of these things is done in unison with another.

good luck.....if this has helped you any tell this woman that you are mad about her, at best she will tell you she feels the same way.....at worst you will get a knee to the groin or slap in the face.

2006-08-02 02:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0 0

I would say first, their eyes give them away. There's a
dreamy look about them. You might catch them watching
you while you're not looking.

They smile A LOT more than usual. They giggle- just a
bit. Play with their hair -Act Coy! Some even blink slower
(notice Madonna's blink). They'll touch your arm and comment
on your new haircut. Or smile - or new shirt. Or muscles -
compliments count. Ask them what they find attractive in a
guy. If they say your height, your weight, your eye color, YOU.
You're in.

Mention a movie or new ice cream place if you want to break
the ice for a date. If they're doing any of the above- they'd
jump at the chance to go with you. Treat her nicely!

2006-08-02 02:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0 0

A smart guy doesn't flirt with cute girls only. Anyway, this has a logical explanation but I don't feel like giving it to you. That would be unfair for the male population lol.

2016-03-16 12:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by Gail 4 · 0 0

you know, sometimes it is just as hard for us women to see the signs that you guys put off to us! just be yourself and don't wait for any signs! go for it, the worst thing that could happen is she says she is not interested. but hey at least you tried. you can't wait for signs, because some women are scared to even flirt. good luck, i hope love finds you

2006-08-02 02:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by scott's wifey 3 · 0 0

I think smiling and soft touching like the hand and back just a little will get him worked up. Any physical contact even the smallest like a hand on the shoulder will drive a guy nuts! Go get em Girl!

2006-08-02 02:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by howardfan35 2 · 0 0

Alot of smiling,and some women play with their hair,brushing it away from their faces.

2006-08-02 02:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

They would look at the man more. Body contacts like brushing hands and mild touching.

2006-08-02 02:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by ET 3 · 0 0

owe my gay dude steviie here, etc, womenn flirting with the cute dudes i find them doing this i wil slap them i want all the cute dudes etc, and i get them to with my, drop dead gorgeous looks etc!!

2006-08-02 02:30:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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