I have had sex alot, with my current boyfriend which is my first..It feels really, really good, But it does seem like I have had an orgasm. Before him I would play wit myself and use a vibrator and I would have one but I can't get the same fellin while I'm having sex..DOn't get me wrong.. my baby put work in the bed..I moan and he cums..but I think it's somethin wrong wit me..Am I the only woman..what can I do to have an orgasam..I want one with him..
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2006-08-02 02:25:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have tried every position and he knows about my problem and yes he is packin I know thats not the problem..More help please..
2006-08-02 02:36:02 · update #1
A lot of women cannot achieve orgasm through intercourse only. Have him stimulate you orally or rub your clitoris for you before or during intercourse, that should do the trick.
2006-08-02 02:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women, just so you know also, report having their orgasms before or after sexual intercourse, through oral or digital stimulation. A lot of women do not orgasm with a penis inside of them (unless their clitoris is also being stimulated)as it doesn't give the clitoris the proper stimulation. While your boyfriends are important to have there, their presence is not crucial to your cumming-you are. Learn about your body, point out where you like to be touched and how you like your touch to be. Engage in some "practice" sessions! If that doesn't work, take measures into your own hands, literally. Stimulate yourself as you and your partner are being sexual. You can get yourself off and most people really enjoy seeing their partner's masturbate, so he'll enjoy it too!
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2006-08-02 09:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most Women just can not orgasm during sex. They Need Direct Stimulation. Oral Sex usually help. I'd say if you really want to orgasm during sex and if you are at all able to, then you need to extend the fore-play. Best of luck.
2006-08-02 10:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually many women have a hard time orgasming during intercouse. Maybe you should get him to use toys on you while you are having sex. Another thing you can do ...is get him to turn you on so much that all you want is to have him in you...and ask him to do it hard and fast...and that usually helps... Another thing is that maybe after you are done having sex with him...go use your toys on yourself to help you finish.
Its very hard for women to orgasm...maybe its performance anxiety in some sense...but, still I think you need to figure out what works for you and ask him to keep doing it. Another thing I suggest is using a glass toy...those things work wonders in bed.
2006-08-02 09:33:19 · answer #4 · answered by Strawberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you worry about it and dwell on it too much during the act you won't have one. You have to be relaxed to have an orgasm. Just focus on what's happening and how it feels. There's nothing wrong with you cause LOTS of women have never had one with a partner.
2006-08-02 09:30:33 · answer #5 · answered by AngFlowr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting on your knees and have him enter from behind you (doggie style). This will provide a better chance of him hitting your g-spot, which will improve your chances of having an orgasm. You can also manipulate your clitoris at the same time. Good luck.
2006-08-02 09:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an orgasm is better acheived when both partners are relaxed and feeling good sometimes a bit of foreplay before intercourse can help to get the stimulative senses going and if he takes his time and not rush to a climax for himself will also help.Having intercourse and truying to reach a climax only stresses your body and it will never happen so just relax and and concentrate on the actual love making and not the climax itself it may just work.
2006-08-02 09:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have problems with that, too. A friend told me to find the spot myself with toys, then have the guy try to find it thru different positions or whatever it takes. I'm single right now and just haven't fooled with it yet.
2006-08-02 09:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by lisacantcook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More foreplay, let him foreplay till you make orgasm, doggy style will help him to hit ur g spot, i think thats the best way
2006-08-02 09:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by shaun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refer to..... Kamsutra..... The ancient Hindu book on sex. (You will get it at any upmarket bookstore) It will cure all your problems related to sex and will teach you a lot of new things (read positions)... Have fun.
2006-08-02 09:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋