2006-08-02 02:16:54 · 38 answers · asked by hellwot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
True love is a feeling, that bridges time, space and boundaries, to a point where you feel as if your life is worthless without this person by your side, but you would do anything to see them happy, and so you forgo your own happiness to know that they are truely happy in what they have chosen.
2006-08-02 02:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm trying to work out if what me and my new boyfriend have is true love. I think I may be in love with him because of the fear I am feeling at the strength of the emotions I have.
I know that my life will go on should I have to be without him, I don't NEED him. I do however WANT him. I sometimes wish I'd never met him because I just know my life will never be the same again now that I have. Staying together will involve many scary new adventures, some good and some bad. Not staying together will involve a lifetime of comparing other men unfavourably with him and wondering what might have been.
I am breathless right now with the thought that I may be in love because I know a person can only emotionally hurt you when you really care and the more you care the more it can hurt. Sounds like I have a fear of being hurt but that's a natural part of being in love I think and you know it's love when you are willing to take the risk.
With a massive amount of fear comes a massive amount of happiness. Perhaps that's how you know you are in love when you have given your partner both the power to hurt you and to make you feel incomprehensibly happy through making your relationship the most important thing in your life (and I mean that, anything less than the 'most important' isn't love). That kind of power I don't tend to give away lightly.
Don't know if that helps but thanks for asking the question, it's made me think.
2006-08-02 03:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peaceful, Gentle & Kind!
True love rests the heart from turmoil, finds the heart relaxed and happy and provides warmth and peace to the soul.
Humble
True love is humbled love. Humble people make the best mates! Their own humility is the foundation for their ability to love.
Honest & Truthful!
True love is wanting to be honest at all times! This is the only way true love survives. Honesty builds trust. Trust is the backbone to a good marriage! Without trust you cannot let yourself be yourself. If trust fails, everything can fall apart.
Unselfish
True Love is a "giver". Each partner realizes the needs of one another, and wants to give it to each other. Unselfish partners know they must love each other just as Christ loved the church,.....with a servant attitude.
Enduring
True loves pledges themself to one another for life! This is the only way God intended marriage. There is no excuse good enough to betray the "love" that God is blessing you with. Fidelity is the only way to strengthen the trust that is necessary to build a marriage year after year!
Encouraging!
True love for another always wants what is best. Jealousy or envy does not enter into the heart because true love cares only to see the other be the best they can be!
Patient
True love is never hurried, always takes the time to see through every situation. True love waits for each other, no matter what, for what ever, and........whenever.
2006-08-02 02:22:38 · answer #3 · answered by karen464916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knowing in ur heart that that is the person u want 2 be with the rest of ur life. closing ur eyes n being able 2 imagine being old 2gether.
missing them when they r gone even if only 4 a few mins.
knowing that u can work out anything as long as u do it 2gether.
but u know there r so many things that can explain true love it would take years 2 put them all down. its in ur heart n u know when it happens 2 u.
2006-08-02 02:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the Lifeforce. True love is a selfless abandonment of one person to another in a natural state of equality, communication and understanding. True love makes no demands but offers. True love is harmony, enlightment and peace within. True love depends on maturity and acceptance; its a process of growing and becoming a better person, after overcoming the state of selfishness and greed that are part of emotional insecurity and intellectual immaturity.
2006-08-02 03:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by FAINOMENON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is one that stands the test of time.
With true love, the two of you meld into one to
one. When you are with that person, you are
"home". You look into the person's eyes and
understand without words.
You can see yourself sitting on a porch in rocking
chairs one day when you're 80- watching the sunset
and still holding hands. And you still think of that other
as gorgeous as the day you met.
Something like that. It's real.
2006-08-02 02:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A feeling.
You don't care for food.
You don't care for TV.
You don't care for yourself.
Your world revolves around one person, and that person isn't usually yourself.
It's the one who you think has your heart.
You can act illogical.
You can act out of how you would normally behave - if it meant being with, helping or showing love towards the object of your affection.
To be true love, it has to be a mutual feeling.
A mutual respect for one another, a shared love.
True love isn't abuse or pain whether that be emotional or physical.
True love is being faithful and being there for one another when company is needed.
I've never experienced it so even I have to wonder...
2006-08-02 02:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically love has various definitions. Your definition of love is unique and probably is different to mine.
True love is genuine. It is more about caring and emotional than the physical bits. There is no strings attached and it is unconditional. For example motherly love is considered as true love because there is no strings attached.
2006-08-02 02:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by falleninlovecouk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
L=> Loss
O=> Of
V=> Vital
E=> Energy.
2006-08-02 02:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by At ur Service 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the feeling that you get when you meet the one that you want to spend the rest of your life with. You think about then all the time and smile and cannot imagine your life without them.
When I met my fiance it was love at first sight and that feeling gets stronger every day.
2006-08-02 03:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋