The country where I live in the chinese girls have some sort of a hate against the men of INDIAN origin here , Hence it become extremely difficult for an indian dude to sweet talk a chinese girl , Anyway I live in MALAYSIA , Any advise wil be very very very useful !!!!
2006-08-02 02:16:53 · 7 answers · asked by OverDose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all.... maybe you should ask that question another way. Let's see..??? Hummm....Say for instance... YOU were in a long term relationship with someone you loved (Chinese, Japanese, Indian, Koren Greek... whatever) would it be ok if someone else was trying to move in on that person? THE ANSWER IS??????? NO!. If the Chinese girls have some sort of "Hate" against men of Indian origin where you live, then either change locations or be patient until one that has an open and loving heart comes along. It's unfair to say that EVERY Chinese woman feels that way, since it's highly unlikely that you've met every single Chinese woman where you live.
If you are attracted to Chinese woman, that's cool, however, there is a STRONG possibility that Chinese woman do exist outside of Malaysia. There is even STRONGER reason to believe that you can be happy with someone other than a Chinese woman. That person may be right under your nose and could quite possibly be more than ready to chill with you and treat you with love and respect.
Work it out!
2006-08-02 02:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by 247 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is already in a long term relationship...stay away! Find someone who is actually available! If they aren't interested, they aren't interested, don't push it or you will turn them off even more. Try just being friends with people...if you have a good personality, it will eventually win people over. But if you try too hard (otherwise, come off as desperate like you sort of are now), it will be obvious and it will drive people away.
2006-08-02 02:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is already involved with another man, and Honorable Indian man leaves her alone. To not do so would be selfish and destructive. If you are just looking for sex hire a hooker.
2006-08-02 02:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by seeker100 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you, it's your color. South East Asian countries are very prejudice against man of color, especially dark colors.
I would suggeest you find a nice sexy Indian girl for dates.
Besides, I find them very sexy if they look anything like the Indian movie actress. ;-)
2006-08-02 02:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by MrSushiRoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is in a relationship, let her be. Think about it, if she would leave that relationship to be with YOU, why wouldn't she then leave YOU to be with someone else?
2006-08-02 02:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them shawarma in chinese sauce =D
2006-08-02 02:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by xapao 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they aint interested that's tough
2006-08-02 02:20:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋