I can not stop my self from thinking and dreaming of men. If i see a man I like, I go home and dream over and over, and write sex stories about him.
I love men, they way they smell, look, feel, speak.... Obviously not dirty, men, but clean men, I cant stay away from (In my thoughts any way).
I dont have problems getting a man, I just have probelms wanting to keep one.
Is it normal? if not, whjat is the cure?
2006-08-02 02:06:34 · 14 answers · asked by looking4_friends13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm obseesed with women....I love their looks, sizes, etc. In my fantasties I have relationships with them......It's harmless. I've been doing it since I was young, probally before my teen years. I'm married, got a good job, nice wife, and so on. Fantasties is fine, as long as you don't let it disrupt your regular life to the point where you cannot carry on a relationship or work a good job. Just hang in there, and you'll find a good guy. Your fantasties may even subside after you get him!
2006-08-02 03:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by David 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal for many women to be men-crazy or boy-crazy, especially while they are young.
Your problem is only a problem if it affects other aspects of your life. For example, if you obsess so much about men that you don't go to school or work, then it's a problem.
Other than that, it's probably hormones. And those balance themselves out later in life.
If after you grow up you keep the same passion for men, you should consider not wanting to "keep one."
There are many men out there who are perfectly in control of themselves to take you as an occassional girlfriend without having the vulgarity associated to "players" or "cheaters."
Many men identify with your about their love for women. So you should try and focus on those men for now. That's my advice, at least.
2006-08-02 02:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mario E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its normal to day dream and drool over really hot guys, but to write sex stuff about them in a diary...hunnnnnnnyyyy....thats a bit abnormal if you ask me..why don't you talk to a psychologist about your behavioral patterns..notice that i didn't say talk to a friend??..some friends can't really be trusted with such delicate info like yours...good luck though.
2006-08-02 02:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in a relationship right now?
Perhaps this si a way to control a relationship without actually being in one.
2006-08-02 02:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a relaation ship right now it may be a little awkward but if you are single, you are acting like a typical woman!!
2006-08-02 02:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
any obsession shows that something is off. Daydreaming about men is not biggie.. we all do it. But if its taking over you life and everything you do you need to seek help
2006-08-02 02:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by howdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really normal. so where are u located and can we meet and if u want to knwo more about a starnger. u can mail in to jaishankar_sc@rediff.com
2006-08-02 02:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by jaishankar4202002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you single or attached, if single thats normal-if you are not single then you might have a problem.
2006-08-02 02:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by hoboken134 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal for women to be obseesed with men and visa versa. if you like to chat email me.
2006-08-02 02:12:06 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should write romance novels.
2006-08-02 02:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋