How do you establish intimacy with someone without "talking" about it?

Question

I hate all the talk talk talk..I am more of an action type person. How do I establish intimacy with someone who is difficult to know?

Answer 1

With me, there would be no way to establish intimacy without talking! Touching is physical, intimacy, for me, is sharing ideas and goals, fears and hopes. You can't do that by holding hands.

Granted, it's not me you're trying to become intimate with, but I doubt that I'm the only person who feels that way.

On the other hand, talking *about* how to be intimate kinda sucks. Those "meta" conversations wind up sucking the intimacy right out of a relationship! But I make sure that anyone I want to be intimate with (and for me this means kids, friends, lovers, relatives and so on) knows what that means to me. Because clearly, it doesn't mean the same thing to everyone.

Answer 2

Try to express your feelings through body language, im sure the guy isnt blind, so he will probably sit up and take notice the moment you start doing so. smile at him when you see him, make frequent eye contact, act coy if he catches you, send out positive vibes that gives the indication that you feel this way. most of all dont change into someone you are not, be yourself. You will have him falling all over you.

Answer 3

Touch them. A touch on the arm can work wonders.

Answer 4

touching, caressing, buying small gifts and doing unique and romantic things together