Men & women plz answer honestly! R women concerned about their taste/freshness: i.e. too insecure to actually enjoy it? Are women afraid that men just won't put in the time & effort to orally satisfy them? Do they feel it's dirty or unhealthy? What is the reality factor with men getting their women off orally alone? Women, are you happy?
2006-08-02 01:54:13 · 14 answers · asked by MADDOG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think women, who haven't had oral, don't know how good it feels, and find it to be dirty. Second, some guys love doing it, other hate it...so it depends on what the guy likes too. Also, some guys don't know how to work it with their tongue and so women feel like its not worth even trying. Also, there are only a few women who can truly orgasm through intercourse...many women need more...more oral, more anal, more fingering and etc. There is an art to turning a woman on and if a guy can accomplish that he is more likely to get her to orgasm ...than blindly attempting to figure her out and seeing if things work.
2006-08-02 02:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by Strawberry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok-my fiance doesn't believe this but I'll post what I always tell him. He asks the same question-
It's not that I don't enjoy it but I'm the type of person that I just enjoys intercourse MUCH more. It's a great warm up, I'd just prefer intercourse to RECEIVING oral.
ON a personal note- I don't think it's dirty or unhealthy but I am always a bit worried about taste/freshness. My deal is the thought of him being down there bc of the period thing... It's clean and all and he says I'm being stupid but it's just weird that a guy would want to stick his face near something that bleeds for so long.( I know-ewww gross...sorry) Which means, yep-I am insecure about it.
I think most men who like giving oral WILL put in the time and effort to satisfy their women but sometimes you just want good hot sex and all that lily licking just won't cut it.
Yes-extremely satisfied. I almost never let him give oral-it's usually me doing the giving and neither of us ever complains.
2006-08-02 02:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by southrngirl2724 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking for myself, I love it orally. Of course you shower first. I get a better climax more often when it is orally. My husband really gets into it when he is doing me orally and gets me off that way. He loves the "taste" of oral sex. He definitely puts in the time and effort with oral sex. Intercourse is awesome too. With some powerful intercourse, a women can climax too after having oral sex. Women can have more than one climax also.
2006-08-02 02:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by ?Shannan? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the women. I know I am clean and fresh so getting oral sex is ok with me. I really don't perfer oral sex because it takes longer for me to climax. But if I had to choose, I would perfer to do it at the same time.69!
2006-08-02 02:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by anw110784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love oral sex. I don't know what some women's issue is. I know some do think it is unclean or they may smell bad. I couldn't imagine sex without oral sex. It is totally awesome and makes intercourse even more pleasurable after some oral stimulation.
2006-08-02 01:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know. My husband loves to give me oral sex because he loves it and not because of me doesn't matter how it smells and i never climaxed with oral sex, always with intercourse. I think oral climax is the same as masturbation climax.
2006-08-02 01:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by Mummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women have inhibtions & mental blocks regarding oral sex...i think its the most arousing thing in a sexual act for a women, but not all are open about it....
2006-08-02 02:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women dont mind some do, its about 50/50 but all women love oral on them oh yes you never hear them complain when your down treating them. you can bring a woman close to orgasm with oral check with your finger to see how close she is or ask her, then whip the big lad out and do her doggy she will rocket to the moon
2006-08-02 02:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest I don't feel comfortable when a guy goes down on me because I feel that it would taste bad and that he is not really enjoying it and I don't want him to do something he does not like just to get me off. Also it's a lto better when a guy just uses his hands or during intercourse
2006-08-02 02:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by Munu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not that we climax better but... lots of guys complain about it or act like they hate doing it.. so it turns us off completely ... even for the next guy who may love doing it... and then the ones who get there rarely know what to do with whats down there. Girls are taught to never let anyone down there... seems strange to have a head there staring back at you...
2006-08-02 01:59:45 · answer #10 · answered by howdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋