she was my friend for 3 years and i slept with other friend who likes me on accident when drunk but they both don't know i like the other one. I feel free when with her can be myself and can talk or hang for hours. i just love her presence the most beautiful girl in the world i'm too scared to tell cuz i luv her as a friend and more and i don't want to loose anypart of what we have. but its painful to be so near her yet so far. I just want to be there for her and to share life together as one. i just want to hold her and treat her like a queen like all women should be treated. i need help im in love and torn apart by fear of loss and rejection.
2006-08-02 01:50:59 · 3 answers · asked by dick from landzoclunt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have 2 best friends.she was my friend for 3 years and i slept with other friend who likes me on accident when drunk but they both don't know i like the other one. I feel free when with her can be myself and can talk or hang for hours. i just love her presence the most beautiful girl in the world i'm too scared to tell cuz i luv her as a friend and more and i don't want to loose anypart of what we have. but its painful to be so near her yet so far. I just want to be there for her and to share life together as one. i just want to hold her and treat her like a queen like all women should be treated. i need help im in love and torn apart by fear of loss and rejection. i don't want to hurt the other but i love the one. we spent all year long together for breakfast lunch and we ditched and spent all day together alot of the time. but i don't know how she feels. i don't think she likes me. she calls me alot and she lives far from me. im not that good lookin but strong and fitWhat do i do?
2006-08-02 02:50:15 · update #1
the best thing to do is ask her dont be afraid to ask if you get rejected then you get rejected and it shouldnt change anything in the friendship but go for it ask her out dont be afraid to try things out and she must like you or have feelings for you to because 3 years is a long time to be a friend with someone and not have feelings for them so ask her and tell her how you feel you might be surprised she probably likes you the same way and the only way your friendship would change is if yall dated and broke up then your friendship would be ruined but dont worry about that because you seem like you really love her so ask her out and good luck with it i hope it all works out for you
2006-08-02 02:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by jenna s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best idea is just to outright tell her how you feel. If your worried about rejection, or making the friendship weird, don't be. The moment that you stopped thinking of her as just a friend was the same moment the relationship stopped being a real friendship anymore. It is really worth a shot. If she's considered you a friend for 3 years already, there must be something about you that she likes. good luck.
2006-08-02 08:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by soft rockstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start asking her out for dates.
No sex before her 18th birthday, and then use condoms.
2006-08-02 09:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋