She said she wants to take it one day at a time. At first she was calling me and talking to me everyday and now she won't even return my phone calls. Do you think I might have pushed too hard cause I kept telling her how I felt and wrote her letters. Is it possible I got on her nerves and now she doesn't like me? I'm so confused. I like this girl so much and want to be with her and she said she feels the same way a week ago now everything seems different! What do I do?
2006-08-02 01:24:40 · 22 answers · asked by Floridaboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she really like you then she would be with you. Move on.
2006-08-02 01:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did push hard,some times telling a person how you feel makes them nervous,you are saying that this girl used to call you and talk to you maybe at that time she was having problems with her boyfriend now that everything seems OK she doesn't need you anymore,try and give her some time and after a week call her don't write her letters,if she doesn't respond then move on,I know how it feels to love some one it's very hard and painful especial letting go,as hard as it is you have to be strong and Good Luck
2006-08-02 08:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by Faith Nelisiwe N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she is taken, if she can have feelings for you, she can also have feeling for someone else down the road. You are playing with Fire, Move on and find a girl who is single and doesnt have mixed emotions. You will be much happier than trying to pick up on someones left overs. It sounds hard but you cant afford to be making the moves on someone who doesnt know what she wants. In the end you will get HURT!!!!
2006-08-02 08:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by rechsteiner1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably crowed her a bit. Seeing as she does have a boyfriend. She is probably confused and doesn't know what she wants. She wants the guy she's with but for some odd reason she saw something in you that she didn't see in her boyfriend. The best thing is to probably just leave her alone b/c u don't want someone who is obviously a cheater. If she is cheating on him chances are she will cheat on you too. As painful as it may be you gotta leave her alone.
2006-08-02 08:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by Cocoabutta98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The funny thing about a girl is that they cannot say no to any offer of courtship, even if it comes from a person other than her first love. It gets into their head. It gives them a kick. They feel elated by the attention. It is for you to decide. If you feel that she is playing tricks at your expense, simply ignore her. That will serve her better.
2006-08-02 08:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u overdone a lil'bit sending letters n telling her u like her all the time..n ur not sure yet if she likes u or not ... stop calling her or talking to her for a while...try n tell urself she's just a girl like all others...if she calls u then she really does like u..then all u have to do is ask her to be with u(leave her BF) otherwise just move on n get her outta ur mind
2006-08-02 09:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me maybe her and her boyfriend were going through some rough times and you came along at the right time but now things are fine with them you loose. move on forget about this girl you can't be that stuck on her if so get out more
2006-08-02 08:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find that women need time to either accept or get through things. Not sure what might be going on but be careful about making assumptions about what she feels or is going through without being 100% sure.
2006-08-02 08:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by sebastians_gec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, find someone else that will want you as much as you want them. Why dwell on this girl when there is so many good girls out there! You will find her when your not even looking. She could even be there now and you just can not see her.
Good Luck!
2006-08-02 08:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by enchantressa34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm....sounds like something happened to make her reconsider her feelings for you...I would give it some time if she really likes you she will make the next move and try to contact you...after all you have made it perfectly clear how you feel for her and now the ball is in her court...so hold tight and don't call her again, wait for her to call you
2006-08-02 08:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by Munu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time, she probably is not calling you because
the b-friend is around
when she does call you & tell you she likes you,
she probably means it, but wants to see if she likes
you more than her b-friend
once she finds out if she likes you more then the b-friend
should be out of the picture
be yourself & just give it time
2006-08-02 08:33:42 · answer #11 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋