2006-08-02 01:19:09 · 7 answers · asked by gs_luxmy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no its not,but u cant contol the matters of the heart so all u have to do is control ur feelings,it wont be easy but u can do it
2006-08-02 01:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by khadeeja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not good to fall in love with a man you know U cannot get in life. If you are prepared to have him only in your dreams and fantasies go ahead. but then what is the point pining over a man you cannot have. set yourself a more realistic goal find a man who is available and who you can get in life. what is the point of chasing after a star that you couldnot possibly catch. you will only end up being bitter and frustrated and wind up like Miss Havisham in Charles Dickens' book Great Expectations. Set your sights on more achievable goals my dear girl. I wish you all the best of luck in finding a love that is attainable, few things are worse than being in love with a man who couldn't care less.
2006-08-02 08:35:44 · answer #2 · answered by black beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id like to tell you not to and to stop while you are in too deep but feelings are that simply because we cant control them, i have a similair problem, im in love with a male feind of mine but he has a girlfreind, im sure he feels something for me as well - the signals he sends out tells me he does., but i would never ever make a move on him, while he is with her, the best you can do is remain really good freinds with the guy, try to be just a very good freind, who knows future circumstances, might be in favour to the both of you, you never know what it will bring.
2006-08-02 09:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. coz ure gonna end up much more hurt after u get him & lose him.
heard the saying "its better safe than sorry"?
on the other hand if u want ur love to be just a temporary fling, then go ahead.. but thats not 'love'.
2006-08-02 08:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is somtimesfor me but I don't know how you use it. I liked a guy who liked me as a friend. So that year. I did very well in school because I was showing I am not a dumb blonde.
So yeah it helps.
2006-08-02 08:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by Chey K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because you're only setting yourself up to get hurt.
2006-08-02 08:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by ruthncls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. Why would it be? just be urself and dont worry about trying to impress someone you know you cant have, please yourself. dont waste your time, the right guy will come along.
2006-08-02 08:23:18 · answer #7 · answered by yahooligan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋