no guy has ever liked me what should i do. i am nice and funny but all they think is i am mean. sometime i can be that is only if people get me really pissed off so i dont know what should i do and the guy i like lives 30mins away and has no way to contact me and i have no way to contact him idk what to do?
2006-08-02 01:12:09 · 33 answers · asked by Big Money 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me and my friend the one i like we have known each other ever since we were very little we had done every thing together. But the problem is that we have no seen each other in 3 yrs till about 2 weeks ago i had held a 4th of July party and i had invitied his family he spent most of his time blowing up fireworks. well his name is Jake me and Jake are the same age and when we were little his family and my family would camp on a island on the mississippi and i was sitting down by the water and the he came down and sat next to me we talked for a while and then he kissed me on the lips i dont know if he still likes me that way or not my i still remember it to this day.
2006-08-02 01:37:40 · update #1
I like the way you formulate your question. The answer is not that easy though.
First of all you really need to concentrate on the main issue and search for other alternatives accordingly.
Good luck...
2006-08-02 01:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by Roland 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
i was in the situation before to all the guys that i liked that i was pretty and could b nice but way too mean if thats the case then hang out more with ur guy friends they know u best start by going out with one of them if that doesnt work out or u just dont feel comfortable with it flirt more but not to the point were ur being defined a whore and the thing with the guy u like loivinig 30 minutes away if u want to contact him use the phone book:)
good luck...
2006-08-02 01:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compassion my dear. Its your story what you have to say, but do you really think thats it what happens. Is this the way others see it as well, or is it that you have only assumed, what others think about you. Many individuals who have a bossy character, have the same stories to tell about themselves. You definitely have to scrape out this character as everybody hates a person who does that. You have to be considerate. You can't just disregard others feelings. When you actually start seeing all this you would actually become a better person and hence, eveybody would like you.
2006-08-02 01:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you have the same character as me. But people said that i might be funny but crude in my jokes. Unintentionally, i might hurt people's feeling with my jokes.
I changed. Yes, you might be a happy-go-lucky, funny and chirpy character gal, but sometimes you have to watch yourself. Maybe to you, its just a joke or a comment, but to others, they might feel insulted.
Don't ever think that no guy has ever like you, some guys might have a little likings for you somewhere down there. Just that you don't know or you don't realise? Most funny and chirpy people like us don't realise that those guys beside us are actually admiring us from a distance, so keep your eyes open and see for yourself... hehe :)
2006-08-02 01:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we're similar.
I'm kind of emotional and temperamental. I'm overweighted and wear glasses and considered to be ugly in my culture. But you know what? I never spent more than one year without a boyfriend since my first one when i'm 15.
So don't worry, when it comes around it will come around.
Try to enjoy yourself. Men usually likes women who seemed to having great time.
2006-08-02 01:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by Mummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself first: You have to learn to like yourself.
1st: take walks or sit in public places and just observe people a lot of times you can see yourself in others and find out how you may need to change.
no one can love or like you if you don't like yourself.
live is a lesson for us and if it pass you by without learning anything how sad that must be. enjoy every single day by knowing that you were placed here for a reason/help others.
2006-08-02 01:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by jazzygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? And what makes you think no fellow has liked you?
Apparently this is about one particular guy. You cannot force someone to like you. You cannot force love. It just doesn't work out well.
Be a considerate, well-mannered, educated, can-stand-on-my-own-two-feet kind of woman. You will then have your pick of eligible men worthy of you affection.
2006-08-02 01:21:31 · answer #7 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit the MALL girlfriend. Try on new clothes and start with the makeup already pulease. Then start your BLING-BLING thing. My guess is go for silver hoop earings when you're on a movie date. Your hair gets stuck in the hoop he gets hair out then you're totally in.And loosen up on the mean bean wouldga.
2006-08-02 01:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by van h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a phrase in my nation : " If a Mohamed wont come to the hill, the hill will come to Mohamed"
All those other guys, they have no idea who u r so for ur own pleasure and delight, find people that will admire ur spirit first and ur body second.
GOOD LUCK & ENJOY!
2006-08-02 01:22:05 · answer #9 · answered by Ecat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is one guy liked you so much and kissed you in your lips although you were still too young for that .. you are in love .. and all you need is to get the courage to drag our baby to tell you and to kiss you again . from there all your real happiness will start again . so why should you wait for him to come . go ahead talk to him nicely .. and take the chance to kiss him back .. telling him that you love him .. iam sure this will work greatly with him ..
2006-08-02 04:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by ohwaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋