by not smiling at him hes not gonna know that Im interested in him
and if I were to be myeself he wouldnt even bother
its because ive done it before , ok onceeeeee
well he, made me do it, when ever I saw him he made me smile , then I started to much smile at him, he understood I like him , I felt he liked me too, then he started getting really angry for no reason so I ignored him ,now he wants me to smile at him , so he started being nice I igonre him now, and now he gets even more angry
any way it aint my problem since he started being horrible to me
and I have a strange feeling that it not right ,so thats im now leaving him alone
so I dont get it should I smile at boys or just leave this stupid playing games , that men do , actually I got really fed up , that I havent really smiled at another guy after him, because I just dont understand what they want you know
2006-08-02 01:05:08 · 20 answers · asked by 67678687 8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds more like you're playing games. If you are engaging in any communication as a way of manipulating someone else, then you're playing games.
Here is some advice I gave another girl. It got best answer and apparently she is hitting it off well with this guy.
The best way is to speak to him. It could be that you will never be together, but the only way is to relax and talk to him like you would any of your female friends.
If you already get on well, simply ask him out for a drink or coffee. Don't try to push too hard, just try one meeting or some social event.
Once you have been out a few times, or have chatted for a while, you will automatically have things in common - the things you have done together, the things you've talked about, people you both know etc
Good luck, there is no easy method except relax, talk, meet and be conscious of his feelings and the way he responds to you.
good luck!
2006-08-02 01:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jeremy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what you should do after all the smiling. If you just keep smiling endlessly you look like a moron. And no one would wanna end up with a moron. So smile, like you do and then get to business. The smiling is a disguised way of saying hi and if that came out in words wouldn't you be annoyed if someone would say hi to you every five minutes?
2006-08-02 01:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by groovusy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you, but if a person can't accept me in the way that I am of I have to tray it be somebody else or if after a while this persons wants me to act different, that person doesn't deserves my attention. The world is already full of masquerades, there is no need to enjoy your live if you wont like 67678687 8. Only you can enjoy life in the way that you do, if a guy can't understand that is not matures enough. Only can make the difference on you, if you change something in your way to be do it for you not for anyone else.
2006-08-02 01:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by Javy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead a smile at them. If they start playing games leave them alone they are not worth it. Leave the game players alone they are too much trouble and will hurt you. Let the more shy nicer guys know you like them.
2006-08-02 01:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go ova & talk 2 him pretend u dont like him just act normally talk 2 him like u wud a male friend bt make sur u add a bit of flirtin in 2 confuse bt not 2 much so he keeps cumin bak 4 mor!!
2006-08-02 01:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by catherine_adey_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no problem in Smiling. maybe that guy has some problems himself . u had a bad experience, dont ruin ur life just because of that , move on , continue ur life & be yourself.good luck
2006-08-02 01:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by nirvana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like smiling smile. The worst thing you can do isn't to be fake to someone, it's to be fake to yourself. If he doesn't like the fact that you smile, do you really think you will like being with him?
2006-08-02 01:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by Robb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A solution might be *how* you smile.
There are lots of different smiles - 'hello' smiles, smug smiles, happy, confident smiles, 'I want something from you' smiles...
If you can be genuinely (reasonably) happy and confident, then that smile will work well for you.
2006-08-02 01:14:05 · answer #8 · answered by Wax Crayon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what this man is doing to u is playing with u,he wanna play u just like his ball,is he worth it all,if a man shows his anger before u are an iterm that means he is dangerous stay the hell away from him.
2006-08-02 01:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by naghtynite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u shouldnt be in that way of thinking. i mean u dont have to put urself into some roles that u ought to be play. just be calm and behave as u like when u r with him. He ll like it more...
2006-08-02 01:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by blue_14532002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋