Visitation v/s "Vacation" times with child and daily care by another individual...?

Question

My husband gets visitation of his daughter every other weekend. He also gets 4 non consecutive weeks per year of "vacation" with his daughter. But because the birth mother has denied him visitation nearly all summer, the judge ruled yesterday that he have two weeks vacation right now. Our problem, however, is that the mother is threatening to call our house repeatedly, stake out, and call police if he is not with her at all times. Due to denied visitation when he actually got vacation from his job and because he has to work, I am spending the days with her and he will be here towards the late afternoon and obviously weekends. In his court order, it says "during visitation father must personally care and supervise child at all times" and that is what the birth mother is using. He just fought for 9mos to get these two weeks ,but cannot get that from his job. What is the worst that could happen over the next two weeks if she finds out that her daughter is with me some of the time?

Answer 1

Hi
i just woke up and read your situation, that woman is a real WITCH, I know you need help, i suggest talk to an attorney, Also on the internet go to wondir.com they have good legal answers. You might also check into pre-pay legal it is inexpensive and they may be able to give advice.

However the court set up the visitation, it is certainly not reasonable, to do that to your husband, and you, My heart really goes out to you both and the child,

Those actions on the birth mother do not show the kind of parental love and guidence that any child needs, instead using the child as a weapon.

Is there any other place you two can stay,? She does not have a right to harrasss you and if this is supposed to be your husbands vacation, that means "vacation" can you be creative, and let her think you went to ? Hawaii, or at least somewhere where she can't follow,? It is worth a try,
if she sits in front of your house, or constantly harrrasses you.. be sure to document, every, call, every episode, and have witnesses, As far as calling the house repeatedly, that is harrassment, she has no right to be in your home and to come along on the visits,
That woman makes me so angry, she is not stable to be doing this to you and your husband, and putting such a strain on your lives,if she "STAKES OUT " your house, she is really a "nut case" GET PROOF, Do not let her run or ruin your marriage and your life,
Nomatter what, or how difficult, don't lose your cool, don't ssay or do anything "ugly " TO THE WITCH , nomatter how much she pushes you.

I do hope you get this resolved for your sake as well as the childs.
Pray, that always helps, get things in perspective, and maybe God will send you a helping hand that you did not know was there,
My best to you and your husband,

Answer 2

the court will take his daughter and give her back to the mother and may not get any more "vacation" time with her

Answer 3

You need a good lawyer, not advice from the ninnies (myself included) here.