WHAT are some RED FLAGS in RELATIONSHIPS?

Answer 1

1. No life.
2. No goals.
3. No personal hygiene.
4. No desire for children (if you want them), and viceversa
5. No sense of humor.
6. No sense of responsibility.
7. No honesty, a.k.a. dishonesty.
8. No emotion.
9. No desire to do things. Anything.
10. No desire to share things with you.
11. No independence.
12. No respect.
13. No confidence.
14. Constant depression
15. No commitment-focus.
16. No follow-up with plans.
17. Rudeness, especially to children.
18. Whiner
19. Constant defensiveness.
20. Has been through a/several divorce(s)
21. No money. (I know, it shouldn't be about money, but there is some truth to this).
22. No sex drive.
23. Selfish sex.
24. Doesn't share basic info: address, phone number
25. Lack of time.
26. Sudden ideas about trying alternative sex styles that you really never even discussed.
27. Has an online profile in a dating site.
28. TOO MUCH Baggage (emotional)
29. Drug/Substance abuser
30. Teases other women/Flirts with other women
31. Doesn't invite you to relate with his friends.
32. No communication
33. Control freak.
34. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.
35. Unemployment
36. He/She wants your money.
37. Lives a very fast lifestyle (flyes, has many meetings, sleeps in other cities' hotels)
38. The Relationship Rebound Syndrome *don't be the rebound*

Just some I managed to get.

Answer 2

Relationships are ideally two-way streets. Each gives and each gets. Each cares about the other and gives consideration, comfort, protection, and makes efforts to please the other. If those conditions aren't present or you aren't comfortable with the others behavior, that should be a red flag. (Many folks asking questions here seem to feel they need to be in relationships where one person gives and the other takes with no or little two-way connection. Everybody has needs and if those aren't met in the relationship the chances are very high it will turn out to be not good.)
Very good question.

Answer 3

A decline in calls - he used to call alllll the time, cuts back to once a day, once a week.

Too busy to see you - sorry, but I made plans to go fishing with the guys.

Lack of physical affection - I don't mean sex, but the small things like holding your hand when you're out in public, sitting beside you in restaurants, kisses for no reason, hugs disappear. He may still have sex with you - in fact, more than ever, but that's all it is, just sex.

Lack of communication - you talk, he either watches tv & won't look at you while you're speaking or worse, just grunts a reply.

Yeah, I'd say that sums up a relationship on the rocks.

Answer 4

Anything that makes you say in your head "red flag!"

Doesn't answer their phone when they go out, but always does any other time.

Walks away from you when the phone rings... sometimes is okay, but body language is important.

Heavy drinking.

Bad temper or occassionally "snaps." If they occassionally snap, that means they are probably trying to hold in violence or anger.

Can't keep a job. If they can't commit to earning money to live, how can they commit to anything?

Answer 5

He does not call you the way that he use to.
Sex is not his top priority with you anymore.
He avoids spending time with you.
He stays out all night without calling you and telling you where he is.
He accuses you of cheating on HIM.
He can't look you in the eyes when he is talking to you.
He'd rather spend time with his "boys", rather than with you.
He disrespects you, call you names, put you down.
He could care less when you are crying over him.
You just have a gut feeling that he is cheating on you.
His cell phone rings all of the time, and he looks at it, then doesn't answer.
He complains about you "nagging or arguing", all the time
He looks at you in disgust
He doesn't care about you going out and staying all night

The list goes on and on, but this is what I've experienced. I hope that this helps.

Answer 6

I would think when your mate comes home smelling of a different perfume, makes excuses to be late, doesn't want to go out with you, gets phone calls from other guys or gals and is secretive about them, you find phone numbers that you don't know who they belong to, does not pay you attention anymore, or as much attention, and you just feel things aren't right.

Answer 7

He's got a tatoo of mom's face near his groin.

She ducks everytime a cop car passes.

Answer 8

Lieing, cheating, anger, violence, one partner doesn't have a job and doesn't seem to be motivated to get one, drugs, alcohol, gambling, discouraging partner from spending time with friends and family, overly controlling....

Answer 9

Red flags denote ANGRY against: Fascism, alcoholism,bitchism ,Imperialism, criminals, and their supporters.

Answer 10

dressing up to go out with the boys
late night client dinners
panicking about his clothes
Smelling perfume on clothes,in his car
I take it it's about cheating men lol