he spends every penny he has on her and is now borrowing money of me to spend on her. he's 1 of the nicest people u wud ever meet.too nice.all she does is sit there with a face on her while he runs around after her family and friends, givin them lifts everywhere.i feel like sayin it 2 her but then my brother wont talk 2 me.i no he loves her but maybe if he saw things the way every1 else sees them he wud think differently about her. but how do i make him see wat she's really like?
2006-08-02 00:26:17 · 20 answers · asked by pops6w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Cinder block, gloves, duct tape and a rope...Oh and either a bridge to push her off or a boat. Use gloves, duct tape will keep you finger prints...
2006-08-02 00:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is nothing. I would not loan him any money however for this. Let him earn it and maybe he will see what a drain she is becoming on his wallet. Maybe ask him to spend an evening with you once a week to see other friends. If he is never away from her how can he see anything. But, stay out of it as much as you can. Chances are she will get bored with him.
2006-08-02 10:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always hard to just sit by and watch a family memeber get taken for a ride but if you go and say something they will undoubtly call you a trouble maker and that you are jealous of the one you are complaining about.It is going to be hard for you but when it comes to borrowing money from you just draw the line and say no it is not your responseability to support him and her but the best thing to do is say nothing as it won't take to long before he sees her for what she is doing.
2006-08-02 07:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U're really in a very terrible situation. there's nothing u can do, ur brother will never listen 2 u. So the best way is just 2 wait and watch. wait 4 the correct moment and when ur brother is in a nice mood, spoil it by telling him about his ' girlfriend '.
2006-08-02 07:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont just sit back and wait this ride wont last too long,and if it does,u are still his brother! unfortunately i went thru simliar situation,and now hes married to her,cant make decisions for others,ive learned that the hard way...and i know how difficult it is biting ur tongue but the more we talked crazy about her,the more he was determined to stay with her. good luck!
2006-08-02 07:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by dawnita0322 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him do whatever he wants... He's blinded...with love i guess. I dont think theres anything u can do about it. He wouldnt listen to u either if u try to talk to him abt it. We all get stupid at some point when it comes to love. Just dont lend him money next time... lol.
2006-08-02 07:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by joe_logs_a_co 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her your girlfriend.Your brother will wake up to see the reality and what he has been doing all the while.
2006-08-02 07:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by simply 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will see the light, hopefully before it's too late
2006-08-02 07:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't loan monet if it's going to be spent on her and also you probably shouldn't say anything about his GF just let him learn on his own.
2006-08-02 07:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to speak your concerns to him,he's you brother.BUT you cannot come to him in anger or try to force or sabotage his relationship,its only gonna pull him closer to her.speak your opinion and let him do the rest.he's only gonna get rid of her when HE see's a reason to.and he will,it takes time.good luck
2006-08-02 07:34:51 · answer #10 · answered by mrs.dynomite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋