I have these 2 REALLY good friends.....they are Married to each other.....anyway...I am a Bi Sexual person & so is she....There has been nothing going on.....
She asked me to be her GF....her Husband thinks it is awesome....I do like her ALOT...but I am not willing to be with her Husband to be with her...& that is what they are wanting also...
I dont know how to tell them I am NOT intersted in him..I dont want to tell her & have her feel like is her fault...
Another one of BIG reasons...she is Married.....
So how would tell her?
2006-08-02 00:19:27 · 14 answers · asked by mysticfairy74 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell her honestly.. the way u feel abt things..
2006-08-02 00:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dearhavent u heard the syinng that honestly is the best policy so just sit down with her and tell her that u are her friend and not her husbands , you can be in physical with her not with her husbands , tell her calmly and cooly, and nothing wrong will go.
U havent offended anyone its her who is demsnading more...
2006-08-02 00:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No easy way out of this one. If she cares about her husband she will be offended when you tell her. Do not live a lie and have her believe otherwise or it will only make things worse...
2006-08-02 00:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by KELLY S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they r close friends or at least she is so be honest dun lie dun ever use a lie be nice and smile with the look of being shy and tell them the truth and i would refer that u dun do it at all even if she offered u to do it only with her close friends relations can ruin alot if there is cheatin included so just do it in the right way dun lie!
2006-08-02 00:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pull her tothe side and tell her in a nice way you dont wont to sleep with her husband to be with her and its not her fault its because sheis married thatis the reason you cant be with her or him.tellher that you and her can be friends that all just friend.you dont wont to mess up their marreg
2006-08-02 01:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are thinking the right thing. You can tell your friend that you want her but not her husband. I hope she will understand.
2006-08-02 00:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say the truth will set u free,make yr stand and say enough is enough,and say i don't want to hurt yr feelings but i must tell u what is inside,that will be yr start,surely u are a human they will understand,u cant do something u not comfortable with.
2006-08-02 01:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by naghtynite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I'm not comfortable being involved in your relationship that way. I value our friendship too much to risk it on some physical pleasure.
2006-08-02 00:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when u have the guts to invlove yourself in such a mess, then have the courage to tell them what u think...come on u r not that innocent and simple...u are bold enough to say it all.
2006-08-02 00:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by salcsan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is a dilly of a pickle.
maybe you should hang around with people that aren't quite as promiscuous, valueless and revolting
2006-08-02 00:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by corpuscollossus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty, is a good start. You've said it all, on here. Why not just say it to her?
2006-08-02 00:23:45 · answer #11 · answered by flaming_dog_racing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋