I love my bf very much and the sex is GREAT! However, all day while he's at work I dread him coming home because I know he will want to have sex. But when we start kissing, my body responds and I really, really am ready! What's wrong with me?
2006-08-01 23:57:28 · 4 answers · asked by Blurry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like the conditioning of being raised in a very sex-negative environment and finding out that it's not bad at all... can cause some issues to say the least, not the least of which is a psychological reaction such as yours. Best advice from me is to do your best to learn to enjoy it. Ask yourself what you dread about it, and if those concerns are really what you feel, or what you were taught to think. Be honest with yourself, and go from there.
2006-08-02 00:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Stigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to focus on how great the sex is and this will have you in the mood in no time. I can never wait to get home from work. It's always me that jumps on him. Keep thinking about certain things that he does to get you in the mood, close your eyes and imagine he's there. Do this every ten ins or so and soon you'll be taking a half day to get out the door as soon as possible
2006-08-02 00:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by toots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have to get a sexier boyfriend...my guy turns me on from miles away...why do we woman always look to ourselfs first when there is a problem in a relationship...it's not you honey it's him...no chemistry...not your fault...got it!
2006-08-02 00:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by Roxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be confident of your self and thats it.
2006-08-02 00:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by kiss me. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋