can u all please tell me your opinions...it would be greatly appreciated!
2006-08-01 23:20:32 · 19 answers · asked by Laura 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If the two of you are mature enough and have the financial means to get married and get a house go for it. Otherwise, no.
2006-08-01 23:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that I'm not the same person I was at 20 that I am now at 31. Even though someone is an adult at 19 or 20, the life experiences that begin to accumulate really change a person and, frankly, we become more mature. So what I'm saying is that you may love this person now and want to marry him or her, but be ready that you will change dramatically in the next 5 or 6 years. Many marriages don't make it when it happens at a really young age for this reason. Good luck!
2006-08-02 00:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by shannonscorpio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion,if your ready regardless what age you are,then you should do it.but thats a BIG if.at 19 or 20 your just starting to find yourself,theres so much out there for you to experience and do before you get married and you dont want to look back and regret anything.im 28yrs old,im getting married in 3 weeks.ive known my fiance since we were 12yrs old so theres no rush.when its right,it doesnt matter if you wait a little while.so my advice is BE SURE thats what you want AFTER youve thought about the future.good luck
2006-08-02 00:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by mrs.dynomite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how mature and willing you are to work at a relationship. I was married at 18 and still going strong after almost 20 yrs. Good luck
2006-08-01 23:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by Colleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It better not be! I'm 18, and planning my wedding now, though we may not get married for nearly a year. If you don't want to wait, that's okay, but make sure that if you DID want to wait, you're not being pressured to do this while you're still young. As long as you're willing, there's nothing wrong with it, but don't feel pressured or forced into anything! Goodluck & congrats?
2006-08-02 05:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you've been dating. I have friends who dated for 3 years between high school and college. They are still married and that's been 20 years ago.
2006-08-02 03:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by bighampjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my grandpa was 17 and my grandma was 14 when they both gopt married they were both ready to be on there own and start a family they now live in a very nice house and have very nice things they have been married for 50 years
So if you think that your ready then go for it hunny but remember its a life long commitment
2006-08-02 01:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by Groover_84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so, Get your life on track first, with a good job, your own home and car ect. Also, if the person is really the one, there wont be any problem in waiting a few years.
2006-08-01 23:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by TellMeWhy? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not early........ 19 - 20 is a good age....but girls usually get married at 23 - 25
but it ok....there is nothing wrong in getting married at 19 - 20
2006-08-02 00:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by M u Z z I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want to get married at the age of 19or20
2006-08-01 23:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by KRISHNA M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋