my best friend wants me and her to have a three sum with her boyfriend for his birthday. never done that before but i'm curious? Should I?
2006-08-01 22:20:16 · 19 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't have any feelings for either of the other people it would be OK. Like you have a crush on the guy or something. When feelings are involved someone is guaranteed to get hurt. I personally have had two threesomes. Once with two guys ( great! ) and once with a guy and girl ( worst mistake of my life). The first one was great because we were all just friends. The second was my friend and my husband. It literally ruined my marriage. Be careful with what you do. Do you value your friendship with this girl? Because you could end up getting hurt if her boyfriend fancies you more than her.
2006-08-01 22:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Princess,
I wouldn't wish a 3-some on my worst enemy. You shouldn't do this, cause you'll most certainly regret it in the near future.
Avoid the depression/shame/guilt/low selt-esteem that will follow if you should get involved in such an activity. Build your friend's (and your own) self esteem and do pls get involved in healthier activities. I've read of people getting involved and, in all cases, had ONLY BROKN relationships and mistrust to show for the 3-some.
All the best.
2006-08-01 22:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! for 1 what if he ends up falling 4 u.then u lose your bestfriend.2 if he done it he's a scum.
now if it was 2 girls that didnt matter hes ok,but we r talking a steady g/f and u her best/f.do not
listen to the punk who said yes.think about it,would u share your bf with her.this is trouble all over it.also i hope u are not under 18. if u want to talk to a sincere person im me or email me or whatever its called
thanx-a-million
nate
2006-08-01 22:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by supernate the star*catcher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really it's up to you. If it's something that you might want to experience then go for it, but you have to weigh all the options. How would this effect your friendship in the end? Better, worse, not at all? Things that you have to think about. Good luck!
2006-08-01 22:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by Reagan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're curious, why not? Go for it. At the very least, you'll be making some guy very happy. I know more guys wish they could find girls like you & your friend who at least entertain the thought. If you do it, I hope you have fun.
2006-08-01 22:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested. It's funny how those two guys above me look just alike but probably look nothing alike in real life.
2006-08-01 22:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by Veronique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a boyfriend and he asked you to do it with his best friend, would you do it?
2006-08-01 22:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by want2know007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am crying right now
just so happy for the birthday boy
lucky bastra_d
2006-08-01 22:25:55 · answer #8 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say NO, if you want to keep your friend
2006-08-01 22:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
want to lose a friend ,then go a head , but do you think it wil end there , no, he will want to do it again or do her behind your back
2006-08-01 23:19:40 · answer #10 · answered by annewithafan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋