I went out with a guy a week ago that i met on a dating site online and we chatted for a while then we finally met really late like after 10 pm because we both really wanted to see each other. when we met he told me that i was very beautiful and later on kept telling me that i was turning him on.
There was really nothing to do at that time of night and we strolled along a dark park and drove around. well he was kind of hard to talk to but no biggie, by the end of the date we were making out. we were kissing hot and heavy and he kept sucking on my neck and i sucked on his, i sat on his lap and let him grind me. i knew i was going way too far for a first date but it felt sooo good and he enjoyed it. he was in pure bliss. i could tell. so anyway i get home and my phone is disconnected and had to msg him abt it....he has not called. WE DIDNT HAVE sex only made out/heavy petting, but did i go too far?! Will he call me? Is this typical? what should i assume? Guys would u call back?
2006-08-01 22:02:28 · 10 answers · asked by LN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i should also mention that this is completely out of character for me since i am usually the ultimate good girl and i rarely kiss on first dates...
2006-08-01 22:12:49 · update #1
oh and we chatted for about 2 weeks
2006-08-01 22:16:19 · update #2
Hard to say, as every man is different. Some men might say you didn't go far enough, & sent them home to a warm palm & a cold shower. Others would be fine with the situation. Still, others might not have enjoyed it as much as you did, & decide not to bother. Dating is always a gamble. In this case, I think he met you with the full intent of a booty call, & when you didn't give in, he lost interest. That's my best guess, anyway. If this had happened to me, I might call back at least one more time, but I would also be assuming from your actions that when we met again, it would be to get a motel room. The only way I wouldn't call back is if I thought you were a tease & I got angry about it. So, if he does call you back, you'd better expect he's calling to get laid. If you're okay with that, great. If not, then you need to be honest with him up front.
I actually had a similar situation happen except we ended up at the motel on the first date. We were also together for nearly 2 years after that first date & considered getting married. So, even first dates that end in the bedroom can become successful relationships with the right people.
2006-08-01 22:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-28 14:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by bollinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have gone too far for a first date. If he wants sex he will call you back.
2006-08-01 22:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by want2know007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its been a week and he hasnt called he probably won't. Sounds like he was just trying to get some anyway. he wasn't in pure bliss, he didn't get laid so what he got was frustrated.
2006-08-01 22:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long had you been chatting? Your question makes it seem like it all happened in one day. You didn't ruin it because there was nothing to ruin. He sounds like he was just trying to get something physical. Give up on him and try to find someone you can talk to.
2006-08-01 22:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont no
the thing is wht he thinks of u?
if he thinks good then ya he will call u not to worry
i dont think u went to far
it happens when u feel for someone
well abt me
i would definiatly call
cheers
2006-08-01 22:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not sure but i would be thinking read some tips on this site on how to play it right
2006-08-01 22:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya you went too far too fast. He might call back...but only when he wants to make moves on you.
2006-08-01 22:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assume nothing.
You might have gone too far but if that's the case then so did he.
2006-08-01 22:08:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what I want in you anyway.....but it was a little bit too fast.
Blame him also, if he wanted to take it far he would not have done that.
good luck
2006-08-01 22:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by Raineli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋