Me and my boyfriend went out for like 10 months and we had a really deep connection with each other. But, then we broke up...I got another boyfriend in attempt to forget about him (didn't work), we lasted about 8 months...while he stayed single. Anyways, me and my ex started talking again, and everything was going good. He told me that he still loved me and that he would TOTALLY reconsider going out again, until he got mad at me....so out of pure anger, he got another girlfriend (so that I would get mad), but I know he doesn't like her..I don't know what to do...I'm trying to let go but, I keep having dreams about him telling me he loves me.....Oh, by the way I had a crush on him for like 3 years. I would really appreciate it if you could help me out...........Thanks
2006-08-01 21:39:11 · 7 answers · asked by Lia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's easy to say just move on, but if you're not over him take your time to figure things out. realize why the relationship didn't work, and if it has changed at all, otherwise it will just end again and who wants that heartache twice with one person? good luck, I know exactly how you feel.
2006-08-01 21:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by kristin h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on what matters to you and your Bf.
I mean, if he really and very naturally matters the most to you and so do you to Him, then these temporary bf's n gf's should not hold much importance and NOR SHOULD be given much importance.
if you find Peace, LOVE and CONNECTION IN HIM and so does he, don't let this pass, GRAB it and feel the fun in growing this connection.
Once in a while, say in 2-3 weeks, always sit down and talk about your emotions and thots towards ur relationship and career, and do Express what is on your mind, be it positive or negative.
In no time, the good times should conquer you both.
Good Luck.
2006-08-02 04:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by itsmikhere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try to talk to him. I he really loves you he will understand. Be a "man" and don't cry in front of him...Be very serious. If he wants to continue his relationship move on and find an other guy to hve a big crush and have beautiful relationship. First of all think what is the best think for you. Use your mind not your heart! Be smart!!!
Good luck!
2006-08-02 04:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by zoqafune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THink about why you broke up with him in the first time and the second. Have those reasons changed at all. Be honest about it when you do.
It may be time to move on, especially when you both couldn't make things work out a second time.
Also, you don't date another person just to make someone else jelous.
2006-08-02 04:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its kind of immature of him to get a gf to make you jealous. Everyone remembers all thier relationships and sometimes you get feelings back after dreams, but it doesnt change the past, and you cant change it. Holding onto dreams can only prevent you from having new ones. Let it go and move on.
2006-08-02 04:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by Slick Mac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh hes obviously immature. Get over him.
2006-08-02 04:46:30 · answer #6 · answered by FucAlloYu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont feel this needs much of an explaination...you should just move on hun.
2006-08-02 04:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by Camie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋