he really loves me and i love him too
2006-08-01 21:30:26 · 11 answers · asked by swit lips 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get the marige to end first
2006-08-01 21:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by sly dog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL honey they are all unhappy in their marriages while trying to get in your pants! Men have been playing this exact same game using the exact same lines since time began, so why are women still falling for it? He loves you my butt, if he loves you why is he going home to his wife? I would be willing to bet he's telling her he loves her too. No way he is living with her everyday and saying i don't love you and i'm not happy. You are being played so if you like it that way keep playing, but do NOT mistake it for love! And remember if they'll do it with you they will do it to you. You already know its in his character to be an unfaithful liar so woo hoo what a big prize you win! Those are a dime a dozen and can be had anywhere, nothing special about them! If you don't want to end up exactly where his wife is right now stop seeing him. These relationships fail like 98% of the time, even if they do ever leave their wives, which doesn't happen very often. There are two sides to every story and you only see his good side, even though he's demonstrating what a loser he is while showing it to you. If you really want to know what this guy is about ask his wife, she knows him, you don't.
2006-08-02 04:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure this, make sure dat...
Come on, wake up... you're not talking about a 2-way relationship here... minimum it's 3-way (his wife) and possibly (4, his child).
At least spare a thought for them. Whatever you plan on doing will affect them... e.g. Does the child rely on daddy for child support and development? How does your involvement potentially affect the current situation the child / wife is in?
There's no right or wrong judgement here... just asking you people to be more considerate... True love is hard to come by, but at what cost?
2006-08-02 04:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by Hang Tough 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's put it this way; the same situation a few years down the road. You decided to go with him because you love him and he loves you. You get married to him. He gets unhappy in the marriage ,but does not tell you that he is. He meets this woman. He loves her and she loves him. Should he go with her?.
Our hearts and minds are sometimes in major disagreement with the other. Choosing which one to follow is life's hardest lessons.
2006-08-02 04:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend is in the same situation. First make sure he's willing to leave his wife. Then make sure he gets the divorce. If doesn't do the first one and continues to tell he will leave her, then i would call bullsh!t. As long as he knows that you will always be there, he won't leave her. Why leave her when he can have two girls.
2006-08-02 04:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by drea_153 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you will like it if your husband has a relationship with another woman while you are still married. if he really loves you, he will wait until he is divorced from this other woman.
2006-08-02 04:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by angel 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if you don't want to be a home wrecker. Just remember the golden rule, dear.
2006-08-02 05:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by jeprx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you love him but you need him to leave his marriage before you can continue
2006-08-02 06:25:16 · answer #8 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can, but make sure that he has no child because the child is the most disadvantaged person in your situation....
2006-08-02 04:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by selle_ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! U can't help your feelings!
2006-08-02 04:36:02 · answer #10 · answered by Bigjay23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋