My friend of 7 years and I both have strong feelings for each other. That's not the bad thing. He dated a friend of mine 6 years ago. They broke up because it was jr high and they were going to different schools in different parts of town. I love her, but I love him too. I want to be with him, but don't know if or how to bring it up to her, and until we figure what to do, we aren't dating...so please gimme any advise you can.
2006-08-01 21:26:22 · 9 answers · asked by Monique Andrea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wrote a sad blog about him about 9 months ago...so that's what makes it hard.
2006-08-01 21:36:20 · update #1
He's told me that he loves me and wants to be with me too.
2006-08-01 21:37:04 · update #2
I've known a lot of friends who used to have the same experience as yours, well, as I've seen them... it seems that true friends understand each other...That thing never became an issue, on the other hand, your friends broke up a couple of years ago,.. i think it's a matter of being honest with her.. remember, past is past and it's not your fault to be in that situation (being inlove)...try to be open with your friend.. heart to heart girl talk will do.. goodluck!
2006-08-01 21:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Mark 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her. I don't see as long as you're being honest with her, that she'll have a problem with it. A junior high relationship generally doesn't mean that much in the grand scheme of things and I assume she's moved on with her own dating life and hasn't just been moaning about losing that guy six years ago. Say hey, remember so and so? We've been spending time together and we're interested in dating. I know you two had something in the past and I just wanted to make sure you're ok with it before I progress any further.
2006-08-01 21:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your sure that you love him then you cant deny yourself what your feeling. Tell your friend how you feel and make her understand how much you love your other friend. Perpare for the possibility that your girl friend wont like the idea of you dating your other friend, but in that case you have to decide which of them is more important to you. All you can do is be honest with her and hope for the best. I hope I helped, good luck!
2006-08-01 21:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way for you to find out is to ask her and explain to her how you feel. There is no easy way to bring it up to her except to find the right time and explain it as honestly as possible. The question is...would you still see him if she says it will make her uncomfortable??? Good Luck
2006-08-01 21:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she loves you back she would understand and let you be with him. IF she still loves him (which is doubtful, cummon, after 6 years), then its going to be hard. But you also have to ask how he feels about her...does he still ahve feelings for her?....until you find that out, theres no point being with someone who doesnt love you back.
2006-08-01 21:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. Love is feeling. Of course. But at the same time it requires courage. Untill and unless you had the courage to express yourself - you cannot get your love. Remember Love bets love. But it must be true at heart. Be bold and carry on........ God helps those who help themselves.
2006-08-01 21:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by Hardil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jr high that was still puppy luv. Go on hit that man up!
2006-08-01 21:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have they broke up? unless is really MANY YEARS AGO, otherwise, i suggest it isnt really a good thing to break it to her..
but if is really long ago, than let her know, if she is really a true friend, she will accept it n be happy for you..
2006-08-01 21:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by tattoo babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be stronger
2006-08-01 21:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by netnew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋