getting back with the ex....?

Question

o.k., great, been 5 years, still exchange birthday e-mails, how do i know if she'd consider giving it another try without being direct nor obvious, what could i do? any advice??

Answer 1

just stay calm and wait for the right moment to ask him or her out

Answer 2

If after all the pros and cons weighed,you thought it's about time to pick up where you left and start afresh believing strongly you belong together as a woman being placed in her shoes,I'd propose you be open about what you really,really want,your intentions and its meanings and be very honest all the way.You're right,don't make it too blunt with your use of words coz it might turn her off,put her to shock and totally shut down whatever form of communication you two are having through the years nor be too extravagant and lavish her with showering gifts from expensive ones to unique ones coz that's not the right way to win back love .. it's certainly not for sale so keep your wallet tight to that regard--be very cautious. See such a gesture might actually only put yourself into suspicion of which it's totally uncalled,drag you down to frustrations and to top it all, chances are she might be reluctant to accept those.Be subtle and stay low profile most especially if you were the culprit in bringing your relationship to the state where you're both recently in.Old flame doesn't just go burning without you knowing how and when to tell the right moment..YOU of all people should know-- just feel her and let those beautiful words come out freely and naturally.Let that heart of yours do the thinking and talking so whatever the outcome may be in that heart-to-heart discussion,you will be comforted knowing it makes you happy to let your heart out and lighten your spirit knowing you did it all in the name of love.
Believe me,if you're meant to be everything will flow right and easy.Will toss a coin for good luck for you...

Answer 3

First, find out if she is with someone else right now. Second, mention that you miss her hugs and see what she says. If she says that she misses them too and doesn't add a "but," after that, you can proceed with trying to win her back. However, if she says she doesn't miss the hugs or just ignores the comment, she is happy just remaining friends.
Also, have you fixed the things that caused the break up and has she fixed her issues? If not, those same things would just cause problems again.

Answer 4

no offence, but the only way you know yourseld if she'd consider giving it another try between the two of you is if you spend more time with her somehow. the way she'd act towards you could say something. if she spends more time with you, she may see a different side of you, which is always a good thing. she needs to see you for you.

Answer 5

Don't be too pushy on the subject. There was a reason why it didn't work out. Do you still talk with her? In person? It depends whether or not she feels comfortable with you or vice-versa. Sometimes it's better to remain friends. Friendships last a lifetime, relationships might not.

Answer 6

Well, maybe you should find out if she's seeing someone first. If she is, give their relationship a little respect. If she's really meant for you, time can only tell....fate will bring you back together. In the meantime, look around you...there might be someone out there who cares about you and likes to get to know you better.

Answer 7

Never, ever, ever a good idea. Think back and try to remember why "ex" happened? Continue to move forward with your life, ex'es only create nightmares and de ja vue.

Answer 8

why would u need somebody,who was not alone in the bed for 5 years? And after all of it you will want her again? :)

Answer 9

Think about the reasons for breakup, if they don't exist now, then only give it a try again.

Answer 10

if you could ask this; means you still love her "or like",
you dont have to know whether she is trying to start again, if YOU want to start,just do it.
And consider this; people never change..
GoodLuck