We've been together for 3 months. He always seem to want to talk about sex, and try to have sex with me. If I'd say no he'll respect it though..but still. He also like to drink alcool a lot. I don't really like that because i dont. Btw I'm 17, he's 16.
Should I stay with him? He says he loves me, he seems to be honest about that.
2006-08-01 20:34:43 · 16 answers · asked by Staticx 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG you're a baby... believe me honey there will be plenty of other guys... Dump him and enjoy being young... have friends.. love life.. this little boy you're dating sounds like a loser....
2006-08-01 20:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg. First of all, you're only 17. No need to be stressed about relationships now. You know you should be focused on more important things, like, your education. And second, if he talks about things you are not comfortable with and drinks, which you stated you are not comfortable with, you are probably better off w/out him. Trust me, he may say he loves you, but where do you really think that is coming from-his heart or his 'you-know-what'. Besides he is only 16, how would he know what love really is? Personally, I'd say dump him. You have plenty of time for relationships. Btw, what the hell is doing drinking, anyway???
2006-08-02 03:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by angela s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave while you can. This isn't a good start. sorry to say.He shoudln;t be pressuring you until you are ready. And he drinks...that's not good either. You might think that he respects you. But I bet he tries to get in your panties at least 3 times a week. trust me he;s thinking about it. Don't engage in something just because he wants you to do it. Do it when you feel like the time is right. yeah he might say he loves you. its a poweful word. It's also a word guys use to play mind games. And you always getting hurt in the end.
2006-08-02 03:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 17 and he's 16. Please wake up. He does'nt mean a damn thing when he says he loves you. You both are too young to get involved seriously. Be good friends until you both are matured enough to know what sex is all about. Don't be taken in by some stupid sweet talk and destroy your life.
2006-08-02 03:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by yuvan53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been 3 months. If he's already annoying you that much, you should leave before he starts to like you more. Rather hurt him a little now rather than a lot more in the future.
2006-08-02 03:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's what we like to do, have sex. if he was the kind which would get upset when you didn't want to (aslong as that's not too often), i could understand you complainin, but since he's respectful enough to be okay when you say no, it seems like you should be grateful that he does want to do it everynow and then
2006-08-02 03:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by Six 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young for that girl... just enjoy your relationship w/o getting into sex, and from your story, he seems irresponsible still... do not waste your life... there are some better things to do right now than having sex w/ ur alcoholic bf...
2006-08-02 03:44:21 · answer #7 · answered by kish-kish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him to me and I will whip his ***, Texas style. No real man would like sex and booze. Bring that little punk on.
2006-08-02 03:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to have sex with him tell him no one last time and tell him he better never nag you again. Then dump him when he does. That way he sees his fault in it.
2006-08-02 03:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by tenaciousd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stay run he is an alcoholic in the making.
2006-08-02 03:39:08 · answer #10 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋