WOMEN - would you ever want to use a strapon on your bf/husband? what if he asked for it?

Question

what if he promised he wasnt gay and he just liked being dominated by a woman in that way?

Answer 1

It has nothing at all to do with being gay ! Being gay means you are attracted to men !!!!! (Don't get me wrong, he could be gay, but this alone is not evidence). But let me give you an alternative view to consider. My girl friend and I began experimenting with toys and light bondage over a year ago. It is a very trusting and sensual experience to be restrained while your lover pleases you. We aren't into to whips and pain and stuff like that ........ just completely allowing your partner to pleasure you. Recently, she decided to try using a strap-on on me. I was nervous at first but agreed. We both enjoyed it. The sensation was pleasurable (there is some pleasure from prostate stimulation), and I get as hard as a rock when she does it, but what we both really got off on was her being in control and me being completely submissive and trusting. And as she put it, "you get to feel what it is like to have your lover inside of you". There was also a little bit of pain associated with the pleasure, but that also heightened the experience - it was really all about her being in control, and me being submissive (used to always be the other way around - now we take turns). She actually orgasms during the act, sometimes more than once. So at least for me ....... it has nothing to do with being gay ......... it is all about letting go and letting the other person be in control ....... and the strap-on signifies role reversal and control. He may not express it this way, but I am sure that is probably part of it. It can be hard to really let go of that and be o.k. with being that submissive, but once you do it, it is is very liberating and opens up a whole lot of avenues. I can also tell you that my girlfriend said she enjoys this role more than she ever thought possible. Of course, I still get my turn to be in charge also !!!!! Feel free to holler at me mikeallen555555 at yahoo dot com of course. I have a story I wrote that could describe what we did in more detail - it might help explain it more. Write me and I will send it to you.

Answer 2

Whoah.Thats wierd.It could be normal cause
my cousin said her bf wanted her to do some nasty stuff involving her messin' w/ his anal
area.I know he's not gay.Maybe he likes it
because there is a place in a male you know
where that when pressure is applied it causes
you know what.This is actually a procedure
that's used in sperm donation clinics.Maybe
there is a kinky side to all men some are just affraid of it.I would not wear a strap on ever.
I would be way too uncomfortable w/ that.

Answer 3

No...I'm usually really adventurous when it comes to sex but I don't think I could do that. It would just be way too strange for me. there are other ways to dominate guys other than using strap ons and I'd take that avenue instead.

Answer 4

I won't. Guys need to have that position. Not the women. I enjoy it when he dominates me not me to him.

Answer 5

Get over yourself....mutual respect and understandings regardless sweetheart....he wants you to explore his fantasys with him..I would consider it an honour...he trusts you.....a question....would you want him to explore your fantasys with you?

Answer 6

No way

Answer 7

MAYBE if i was extremely drunk, i loved him heaps and there was something in it for me. like.... a spa or a holiday or something big!!

Answer 8

i'd find it a bit odd, but if he wants to experiment w/that, then i'd be down.

Answer 9

yeah ive always asked my exs to let me do that.. and yeah hes gay. always gay.

Answer 10

If he asked, sure.