he's 24 i'm 35... we always "meet" at a certain place and usually ride around. Never on a date!! We talk everyday and see each other at least once a week. He is a fire/medic and works alot. That's his excuse. And another problem... we have sex occassionally but he always wants a BJ when we could have sex!! What's up with this guy?
2006-08-01 20:17:03 · 11 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm...he works a lot, but that doesn't mean he can't take you out on a date. Also, you "meet" at a certain place? It sounds like there might be something that he is hiding. I would definitely stop giving him oral sex, at least for now. Talk to him....ask him why you have to meet in a certain place to be together and why do you only ride around.
Also, try asking him to go on a real date with you...where he comes to your door and takes you out to dinner or a movie, etc. If he keeps giving you excuses to that...I'd say he definitely is hiding something. He's hiding you from someone possibly. Like I said, if he can't take you out on a real date, it's time for you to move on to a guy who can. There are guys who do the same job as him who have time to take their girlfriends and wives out.
2006-08-01 20:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by littlerandiheather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has excuses for everything.Tell him a date or nothing. And when he ask for the BJ tell him to go down on you and give you a licking til you tell him to stop and only then do you give him alittle BJ.Then make him finish you the right way.Foreplay has to be there for me.And I like to make sure she gets off too.
2006-08-02 03:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by Randy P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope I am wrong but it sounds like he's ashamed to be seen in public with you, maybe because you are so much older. As for the sex, he doesn't find you attractive enough to sleep with. I don't mean to be hurtful. That is honestly the picture you have painted.
2006-08-02 03:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is using u, and he is cheap. if he never takes you out he will never feel the need to later on. you cant change him, and he will continue to want things to stay the same between you. tell him what you want or continue to be miserable. there is not any excuse that is good enough, and your time could be spent with some one who will take you out and have some fun, you are not dead yet.
2006-08-02 03:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by cmac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a hangup of being with an older woman.I think you should quit wasting your time and find someone who will take you out and do you sometime.
2006-08-02 03:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for your sake run as far away from that horse sh!t! I"m sorry if you like him but it's like your waiting for catastrophe in a utopian world.. that guy evidently just want someone who would sck on his cockee.. go and look for someone else even just in webdate.com where i myself found someone who treats me like a real woman.. a lot of guys deserves you more than that jerk and i don't mean to be rude or anything but you are totally wasting your time in that jerk..
2006-08-02 03:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by steller23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rather... What's up with you! His behaviour is understandable... a wild man in the persuit of satisfying a need... what's your reason?
2006-08-02 03:19:55 · answer #7 · answered by Royal Flush 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the guy is shy. Why dont you ask him for a proper date and talk.
2006-08-02 03:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you.
2006-08-02 03:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by Stranger in a Strangeland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's only in it for the sex. Dump him.
2006-08-02 03:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by littlechrismary 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋