MY family and I have raised her and I want what is best for her. Her mother, now that is a long story. I don't like the things she exposes her to and the people she has her around.
2006-08-01 20:13:38 · 8 answers · asked by cruchling 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
i guess, if it were me, i would (silently go to local authorities} ie, social workers,police.if she is into inappropiate bevavior,let them catch her.let them be the scapegoats.if they feel like she needs to be in your daughters life,suck it up & try to get in good enough favor,to be able to go with her.. let your your daughters mother hang herself.
2006-08-01 21:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on what those "things" are and what those "people" are into. If these "things" are illegal and these "people" are committing crimes, you have grounds to possibly have her parental rights taken away. If they're just things you don't like because you're being peevish and can't stand the idea of your daughter around her mother and her mother continuing her life (I'm assuming these "people" are men your ex wife is dating from the way you come across), you're sh.it out of luck. If it's the latter, grow a pair and get over it. That's the beauty of divorce. You don't have to care about who is porking your ex wife, if you do, then maybe you should have tried marital counselling rather than divorce.
In a growing number of states, active and intentional parental alienation is grounds to have YOUR rights removed as it is considered active and intentional emotional abuse. Proceed with caution, pick your battles, and decide whether it's really worth it.
2006-08-02 02:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by sovereign_carrie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to them lol they believe full-heartedly in psychology, which happens to be flawed. I can understand if you don't want your daughter to have terrible influences so early in life. I have two suggestions. One, you could tell her mother exactly how you feel, and perhaps work out some arrangement in which she is involved in your daughter's life as little as possible. It may be a long shot, but tell the mother anyway that if she cleans her act up, she can see the daughter more often. Sometimes all some people need is hope. But, if she fails to cooperate and gives you an extremely hard time, I suggest bringing the matter to court and gaining full custody.
2006-08-01 20:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter is always going to want her mother. She sees her as completely perfect, that is just the way God makes children. You need to talk to her mother, the woman you decided to lay with. You're creating a battle that will create problems and confusion. You can limit where your child goes, but protecting her from her mother sounds a little redundant. You gave little details but it is good to listen to your instincts. Just know that every child needs her mother, the both of you grown ups will have to communicate and compromise to give your daughter the best. Also, you sound pretty judgemental and we are not to judge others. Be careful with that.
2006-08-01 20:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm saddened that you would want to keep a daughter from her mother! a little girl NEEDS her mother. your attempts to "protect" the child from her mother will back-fire on you. one thing i have learned from being a step-mother is, no matter HOW TERRIBLE a girl's mother is, she still in her young mind worships her! that is something that will NEVER change. i don't know how old your daughter is but i can say you need to help foster a good relationship between the two of them or you will end up losing your daughter.
2006-08-01 20:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by JayneDoe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to court for supervised visits, and the person that is saddened by this. Sometimes children are better off with out a parent if they are screws with them emotionally. A parent that is not there 100% for the child is not worthy of being called a mother or father
2006-08-02 21:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by i love my sexy hubby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are going through. If those things she is exposed to are illegal and prohibit her from taking care of the child, then that's an issue. I don't allow certain people or things around my children because they shouldn't grow up thinking its ok.
2006-08-02 02:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont allow ur child to go to her mother she will suffer from mental and psychological problems and she may also go against u.so let her mix wid her mom and judge herself the truth..
2006-08-01 20:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by cdash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋