I have been with a man for over 7 months. I broke it off wiht him bc i knew that others didnt want me with him, but the way i did was not the best in the world. I kinda lied about somethings and now i know he will not be able to trust me. I know that i probably dont deserve to have him back bc of the way things went down but i would really like some advice on some ways i could get him back bc i really do love him and he made me so happy and now i am misserable without him.
2006-08-01 19:57:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't love him, you miss him. had you loved him, you wouldn't have ditched him over other people's feelings. now you miss the companionship. it hurts and it can make you miss someone purely out of a need to get rid of thast hurt. but it's better to fight your pain for now and find someone you truly care about.
2006-08-01 20:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by ClintyS 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well here i will help u a bit. First u made a horrible mistake letting the people who didn't want u to go out with him that u are weak. And second u must hold your self together and go to him speak for everything and tell him how much u love him. Tell him in how terrible situation u are now. Tell him how u feal without him tell him that u realy love him and last tell him the thing that u broke off with him. Be strong and never show that u are weak. U can be mad u can be sad but never express that feelings before those who will laugh at u and make fool of u. So if u are in 1 of this situations jsut hold a bit and when u are alone then do what u need to do. Cry or... NEVER SHOW YOUR WICKNESS BEFORE OTHERS AND GO GET HIM!!!!!!
2006-08-01 20:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by Filip N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't u think u hv bin unfair to him,why do u nid to please them in the first place ur love n happiness is atstake nt dem.Maybe u suld ask ur self first if u r sur of urself dat u,really love him n u can accept the fact that other people around u r nt infavor of him,if not don't try to win him bak let him find someone who will love him n accept him no matter wat. Don't b unfair to him.. If you really love him set him free if u tink u can't love him as much as he loves you. Don't let other people control ur life...U r incharge of life...n before u make any decision try to think of it a thousand tyms so will not have any regrets on the end.U hav let him if go wat if wen u let him go he fall inlove with someone else n matter how u try u can't win him back,don't try to expect dat after u broke with him n u regret then u will come to him n forgive u can get him back or do u tink the same memories will be back also....don't have too much confidence on urself so will not get frustrated no matter wat the result will be.....
2006-08-01 20:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him back, consider starting with a trust factor to regain his trust. Without trust, there really isn't a good relationship. If you love him like you say, then do everything in your heart to get him back. He came only come back, when you want him to.
2006-08-01 20:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Berzirk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hai!i dont know u.but i want to ask u 1 question.have u taken anyone's pemission when u fell in love with him then why did u u tell him lies?and why r u scared of others.i think ur lover has been badly hurt.if u want to get him back just go to him reveal the truth that u really love him.if his love was true then he will surely understand ur feelings.best of luck.if u want to share ur problem u can also send me mails at debjyoti_pinka@yahoo.co.in.............tata.
2006-08-01 20:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by debjyoti_pinka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right you dont deserve to be with him but if he is willing to take you back i say i've hoped you learned your lesson call him up tell him its really important that you talk to him and take it from their you haveto realize in life you cant make decisions based on what everyone else wants or what anybody wants 4 you but i see you've just learned that only you know what makes you happy and as much as you want to please others you haveto think of yourself first and whats best 4 you best of luck to you
2006-08-01 20:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him 2 come around for dinner
n explain him all the stuff
n ask forgiveness
2006-08-01 20:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what you told us. Then tell your sorry for what happened will you forgive me. then tell him you still love him very much.
2006-08-01 20:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you care if others didn't want you with him if you loved him?????????
2006-08-01 20:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by Camaro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋