Hey well my b/fs brother is blackmailing me. I kind of cheated on my b/f and slept with him once when I was drunk at a party. I didn't know what I was doing, and thought I was making love to my b/f. When I found out it was his brother I was pissed about it. Now, my b/fs brother keeps threatening to tell my b/f the truth unless I have sex with him whenever he wants it. I really hate having sex with him. It's almost like rape to me because I really don't want to sleep with him. Please tell me how to get out of this situation.
2006-08-01 19:51:38 · 17 answers · asked by Sexy Cindy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well for starters you should have told your bf from the start what happened!! but now that the opportunity to do that is gone you have to stop having sex with this guy!! it doesnt matter if it ruins your relationship by telling your bf you have to do it!!! you can not live your life being harassed and sexualy abused by someone. get out now!!! it doesnt matter the consequences!! good luck if you need to talk im me kissylicious1005
2006-08-01 19:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is a beast! You should have tell your bf about this, this technically is rape! When consent is not a consent (you are drunk to give consent), it's consider rape. A guy who took advantage of you when you are drunk, and still blackmailed you, you should not shown any mercy against him! If he refuse to leave you alone, report it to the Police.
2006-08-01 19:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
report the brother to the police and tell your boyfriend the truth. Relationships will not last without honesty and keeping secrets from your boyfriend is the first thing to make a relationship go from good to bad and worse.
2006-08-01 19:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** that tell your man about what his ****** bro is doing . Catch him on a tape recorder blackmailing you then threaten him you will show it to the police if he doesn't leave you alone . I cant believe you just give it up like that to this punk.
2006-08-01 19:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by U gotta b kiddin me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got into this mess, so you have to take responsibility for your actions. Admit to your boyfriend that you made a mistake, and that his brother is trying to blackmail you. If he understands, you're one lucky woman. But if he doesn't, just start anew and visit wealthymen--dot--com.
2006-08-01 20:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by Diamanta C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain what happened to your bf and tell him what is happenening now. if he can't forgive you for an honest mistake, then he's probably not the one for you anyway... btw, how drunk was his brother to have taken advantage of you the first time? that seems to have been more his fault than yours especially if the two look alike
2006-08-01 19:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jenessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg honey TELL THE TRUTH!! beat him to the punch and tell your boyfriend yourself. whatever he decides to do at that point is his decision alone. i personally find it hard to believe you thought you were making love to your b/f when you were drunk but that's just my opinion. however, continuing to sleep with his brother, black mail or not just makes YOU look bad.
2006-08-01 19:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell it to your b/f! If he believed you he's gonna beat his brother and break up with youf or a couple of days. If not....Move on. Don't let an a******* rapping you is very bad. Talk to your b/f today, NOW!!!Well it's your soul and body.....
2006-08-01 20:01:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a thin excuse. You can't rape the willing. Being drunk is no excuse.
S l u t
2006-08-01 19:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur b/f, and if he doesn't beat up his bro, then he's not worth it. Dump them all! But u mean that u hv slept with the bro more than once??? not a good idea...
2006-08-01 19:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by mochabara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋