What do you do when your with one guy and you think your falling for another?

Question

1 Do you just keep it to yourself?
2 Do you tell the person our with?
3 Do you tell the person you think your falling for?

Answer 1

1. No
2. Yes its important they know how you're feeling
3. Yes so you can live with no regrets and no wondering what could've happened

Answer 2

1. No

3. Yes, that is for you to know if he also have feelings for you. What is the use of giving up your present relationship if you will fall for someone who does not love you. There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved. If love for each other does not exist in a relationship, then get out of it before its too late. The more you will hurt yourself in the future and regret it in the end.

2. Yes. I think you should tell him what you feel towards another guy and If the new guy likes you then you decide (if you will be with the new guy and dump your boyfirend or stick with your boyfirend and tell him its just an infatuation) . . . BUT if you really cannot stay in your present relationship, tell him about it and let him know your true feelings towards him and then talk about the future status of your relationship.

Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart.
It is best to wait for the one you want than settle for the one available. Best to be with the one you love than the one who’s around. Best to wait for the right one because life is too short to be wasted on just someone.

Good luck

Answer 3

I believe keeping it to yourself will only make things harder. i would advise you to seek the opinion of a close friend. if they're a good friend they'll have no uncomplimentary judgments and help you work it out. Do not tell the person you're with because it only leads to heartache when you're not even sure your feelings for another are true. And definitely do not tell the person you're falling for because if you end up not liking the other guy than you're breaking another heart. I really believe you should just have a good talk with a friend who knows you very well and then take some time to think to yourself about your feelings and sort out who it is that you really like. this happens to alot of people because, really, we're just humans who are capable of being attracted to more than just one person. When you've made a choice then you're going to have to either push the other person out of your mind until you've absolutely no feelings for him or if you've chosen the guy you're with then i suggest you calmly talk it over with him. make it short though because this guy is definitely going to need time and seeing you will only lead to more heartache.

anyways, hope it works out for you!!!

Answer 4

1 You have to understand why you are feeling this way. So reflect on it.
-- Is there something this other person has that the one your with does not have?
-- It's new to you and you like it because it's nice to not feel the same old thing?

2 Talk with the person about how you feel.
-- But don't get carried away because you still have a boyfriend.

3 Let your boyfriend know.
-- It may sound hard, but it's well worth it to talk things out and let him know what's going on inside your head and how you feel.

-- Remember that the truth may hurt, but talking can solve many things. So talk with your guy and let him know. Who knows maybe you two can talk things through or maybe you are meant to be with the other guy. You will never know until you talk it out.

So essentially do all 3..

Answer 5

Just wait until you think you really like this person because if you tell the person you love/like then he probaly never talk to you again...So first see if this is true just don't let it be your mistake..He may be a person that will just be in your life for a few times but the person your with can be with you for a few years...
Just don't break no-one's heart (even you tell the person him listening to you saying that well make him really sad,and he will cry at his on time)...
Don't break no-one's heart and don't get your broken..

*Just wait until you think this relationship is going with you and that person your fallling for*
Make sure it's not lust it's love
And if you already have that for the person your with don't mess that up...

If i was you i would end it with the boy i'm with until i know where i'm at...

-♥Amber♥-
I have you understand this because your heart is the temple dont let no one come in and mess your temple up

Answer 6

This one is a tough one...I have recently gone through it myself....all i can tell you is that you have to look and see if you really like the guy you are falling for...Is he really worth leaving the guy you are with now....Or is it like mine was i just wanted something different and new i had been with the same guy for way to long....but i found out that the guy i was with was the one for me and the guy i was "falling for" was just like a really good friend of mine...to this day i am still with the guy I was with then and are still best of with the other guy...It is all in what you see with each of them...

i did # 1 i kept it to myself and figured it all out because why cause problems that don't have to be there...

Hope things go smooth......

Answer 7

1- Keep it to yourself
2- You must not , if you tell , you will be branded as a butterfly , not good for your reputation .
3- After getting sepration from the existing one .
Better make up your mind , you need only people around for time pass or forever

Answer 8

I would tell the person you're with, because to me... it seems like it's only fair. They would deserve to know. (the sooner the better).. and if you told the person that you're falling for, it would just make things more complicated. If you kept it to yourself, you'd just become more miserable =(

Answer 9

Keep it to yourself. Telling either of them prematurely is a recipe for disaster.

Answer 10

you tell the person you are falling for! since you like him i guess either way you must be happy with the person you are with :)