He wants it to be with one of his ex from out of town. Who just got in contact with him. I'm not threatened by her. I just don't want her to spoil everthing if she might end up being the jealous type. She says she is ok with it . But he said when he mentions my name her attitiude changes. This is something I have always wanted to do and don't want anyone to mess up my fantasy!
2006-08-01 19:29:21 · 15 answers · asked by Lollipop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do realize that he was once in love with her right? We all have that fantasy but that's were it should stay, there is always an odd one out in a threesome how are you going to feel while your just sitting there he's having sex with her right in front of you, someone he dated not just some random girl. What if having sex with her brings up old feelings for her and you loose him. Is it really worth it. Can you actually say you love him if you want to share him?
2006-08-01 19:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by Pink Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you on some serious ****.
Let it be a fantasy and leave it at that. Once you go there, your relationship changes. Things may never be the same between you and your boyfriend.
Why don't you ask your boyfriend to turn the tables and let it be with another guy or better yet a foursome and see what he says...think this over carefully before you jump into bed with 2 other people!
If you are trying to please him, it won't work. No matter what you do for a man if he ain't no good he ain't no good and if he's going to cheat then he will cheat...
2006-08-01 19:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sugar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Chivalry says, "If you really want to do this, it is unwise to bring a previous companion in the picture. I understand that you are proving that you are mature enough to handle the situation, and I commend you for that. But don't bring an ex into the picture, because there is always that small possibility that old feelings could be brought into the light. What if he is inside her, and he reminisces about a 'terrific night' they had, and he wants to try again? It's always your decision, but those are things to think about. Good luck and enjoy."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-02 07:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some morals and quit letting your boyfriend brain wash you,you are probably a product of your environment and you think thats ok. or just a cheap dirty slut and you will always be that way. Sorry for the slap in the face but you sound like a ho bag.
2006-08-01 19:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to with his ex? I think that you should find someone else that you won't upset and fully trust. Then everyone's happy ^-^ But I wouldn't recommend a friend... I think it could ruin your friendship.
2006-08-01 19:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by Angela B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes not the rigt candidate. Look for someone neutral, and set rules. 3o somes are relationship spoliers so be careful.
2006-08-01 19:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by Apollo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I wanted to say was, God Bless YOU. I wish more woman were liberated like you. You know what you want, and your not afraid to do it. Bravo. I wish you were MY girlfriend!
2006-08-01 19:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk 2 her alone ask her if she still likes him. If she does tell ur boyfriend.Make sure that he don't like her.
2006-08-01 19:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by Angel8 G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can live out ur fantasies as long as it does not hurt ur daily life.
2006-08-01 19:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him to do it with one of your friends instead of his ex
2006-08-01 19:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋