Well there was this girl who works with me. Well when I first met her a couple of months ago we used to talk to her all the time but ever since I told her I liked her she and she said she only like me as a friend. Now she doesn't even talk to me but only sometimes but she would still look at me like theres something. What does this mean?
2006-08-01 18:47:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means that she doesn't like you. She's trying to put an optimistic spin on it, I guess. At least they try to be polite! I don't know how much you talked to her, or what you told her, but you shouldn't talk to girls you like so much. It can make them lose respect for you. I suspect you made a mistake you weren't aware of to make her lose interest (assuming she had any to begin with). Good luck with the next one!
2006-08-01 18:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she said may actually be true, she sees you only as a friend. So be a friend. Women change sometimes, but don't push her to change. Be nice, dress well, keep clean, and all those other little things women like. Don't push. Relax around her. If it happens, it happens. If not, relax. Lesson learned. There are always other women in this world.
2006-08-02 01:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by James S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably senses that you like her alot and she doesn't want to give you the wrong impression. If she says she doesn't like you any more than as a friend, then she doesn't like you any more then a friend. It is possible that she is just looking at you cuz that is what people do. Don't read into it, or you'll freak her out.
2006-08-02 01:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's feeling uncomfortable about talking with you. Although she likes having you as a friend, she is probably missing the times you spent talking, but now she feels like if she does talk to you that you are going to take it differently.
All you can do is reassure her that you are fine with being friends. if that's your intention. she'll come around .
2006-08-02 01:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by ohlayd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You scared her! Chill out and take it slow and give love a chance,slowly. IT"s not been long enough for you to tell her you like her! are you being too pushy>>> Be a friend first sounds like that"s what she needs!
2006-08-02 01:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by single mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just wierded out by you liking her, because she doesnt feel the same. and she looks at you like there's something, b/c she is questioning whether she can sense that you still like her. if she gets that vibe, she doesnt want to lead you on, so she chooses not to talk to you.
2006-08-02 01:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she said that the your are nothing more than a friend to her, well why she look at you then? hmm most probably she wants to know if you are still "looking" at her. girls have this syndrome, so you gotta live with it..but when a girl says that its nothing more then a friendship..then there's nothing at all, emaning she is dead serious about it..
2006-08-02 02:01:15 · answer #7 · answered by chandni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is like u but she have a some of other problems in family or society,ask her what is the problem,and out the answer get her and enjoy the life
2006-08-02 01:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by ww.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha yeah..not all of the people can handle it...when i am told that a person likes me...well i start to build walls...even if i like the guy...sad but ture...i no its because...im prob scared and not ready...well if i were u (and im not) u should talk to her about this...GOOD LUCK yO!
2006-08-02 01:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by Smile Baby :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You scared her and she doesn't want you think anymore thoughts like that but isn't sure how to act around you now considering whatever she did before made you like her....
2006-08-02 01:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by ill_be_up_in_5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋