after 3 yrs...he decided to break up n ive decided to let go...but i still hav those moments that i remember those happy times and i miss them...its hard for me...his reason was that he wants more time wit his frds n he feels that im takin up alot of his time...but..the fact is...he goes out wit his frds every night...n every weekend...over this year...i see the big changes in him...hes so influenced by his buddies...the way he talks are like his buddies...n he treats me lik crap infront of his buddies but wen they arent there...hes all nice and sweet...i hav a feelin that...because his friends dont like me...thats the reason he wants to split...he wants to fit in...a lot of my friends stuck around for me...n talked to me...n helped me...but ive been takin a slow recovery...its been 2 months since it happend...i keep myself busy...and...he still cares about who is the guy im seeing...or wat im doing...i cant get over it...n i say to myself...do the things that i couldnt do before..
2006-08-01 18:44:50 · 3 answers · asked by lovejoey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel like i just lost my best friend...
2006-08-01 18:59:51 · update #1
i havent talked to him for a whole month...cuz hes on vancation...hes going to different school in the fall...
2006-08-01 19:10:55 · update #2
and it is my first relationship
2006-08-01 19:11:53 · update #3
Looks like you 2 have grown apart and and he wants to make some changes in his life that don't involve you...So you have got to find a way to heal and move on....I know its hard but you can do it..You have got to show him that you are having a ball without him in your life.
2006-08-01 18:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by Majenta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard & it hurts because you love him so much but try not to see things through "rose coloured glasses" where you don't see the bad! There is a man out there for you, who will be proud to treat you with love & respect ALL the time not just when you're alone, don't settle for 2nd best, & would prefer to hang out with you than with his mates! There is a forum that's which may be helpful for you. http://groups.msn.com/BreakUpSurvival/_whatsnew.msnw
I know what you're going through I've been going through a breakup from a 2 year relationship for 2 weeks. If it would help to have someone to chat to you can email me. It may help to have no contact with him & have a 60 day He-tox, that's what I'm doing.
2006-08-01 19:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on.....he has to choose you or his buddies....stupid friends of his....he should never ever listen to them...but hun just move on.
2006-08-01 18:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by kaysh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋