I am really close friends with my best friend's bf..Eric.. and Eric considers me as one of his boys so he tells me pretty much everything that goes on in his relationship. My best friend and his gf Monica who currently resides in another town with her parents. she is supposed to be back in town pretty soon. the problem is that she never calls her bf unless he tells her to and seems to never have time or desire to talk to him cos she is busy.and he misses her like mad.literally...she takes him for granted basically ....she never told me anything ..that like she likes someone else..nothing of that sort..and eric is really upset and bitches about her when talking to me. and i hate this and i told him he should make her miss him so he should not call her every single day but wait 3 days and wait till she calls. (he calls her daily). I hate being the middleman and its not my biz to deal with their relat-ship. but any advice? stay out? help them somehow? warn her? i dont want them 2 breakup.
2006-08-01 18:31:48 · 3 answers · asked by Feodora 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just let them work it out..try not to lose your cool if he accuses you of something.. just let them take it out on you.. they will thank you later
2006-08-01 18:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kelsey G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its unfair that eric gets monitered and misses his gf, while monica is not and doesnt call him, eric needs to realise this is not a good relationship. he cant dump her because there is a friend connection but hes getting little out of that relationship, they may only be staying in the relationship because there is a friend connection. Find out why eric is staying in this relationship, he is probably desperate or doesnt want to end the friendship, this just seems like a relationship built on hope, if i were you i would try to end this relationship, i dont know the full story and you said eric misses her but also bitches about her which was confusing, good luck
2006-08-02 01:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jsut say, leave me out of it. Your realsionship, you deal with it. Middlemen/woman just ruin things. Leave it to them. (don't just listen to me, i could be wrong) Also, throw in an intermission next time, wow.
2006-08-02 01:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋