2006-08-01 18:31:09 · 41 answers · asked by cookies 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it doesn't hurt or offend you that the feelings are not mutual, Keep on lovin'... If it's effecting you in a negative way, Then maybe you should try to readjust your feelings towards that certain person.
But no matter what, You can't change the fact that you "love" someone over night And it's never NOT OKAY to love in any way.
2006-08-01 18:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people are missing the point here. Love is not something you turn on and off. If that were possible, then 'love' would not be love at all. Love is unconditional. It is not something you can just say "this is a waste of my time, so I will just move on". With love, true love, that is not possible. Now, infatuation is another story altogether. You have to really ask yourself... is this true love, or are you just seriously infatuated with this person? Infatuation is something you can walk away from. It is not always easy...but like being addicted to a drug, infatuation is basically an addiction to another person. You do not 'love' the person, just as a person does not 'love' their drugs. But, they believe in their minds that they cannot do without it/him/her. If you truly love this person, then enjoy the love for what it is. If they do not reciprocate your love.... well... there is really nothing you can do about it. Love them in your heart and mind, but live your life too. Is it okay to love them when their love is not shared with you? Of course. It happens all the time. It honestly is not something that can be turned on or off.
2006-08-01 18:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I am going through this right now. My girlfriend, now ex basically broke up with me...didn't sound to sure about it, but anyway...I still love her, I mean truly love her, and that will never go away. Love is something that cannot ever be broken one it is truly established.
I, like yourself, should consider this quote "It is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all". If you truly love someone, that will never go away, but there are others that are more worthy of your love, the ones that want and need it!
2006-08-01 18:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by blessedbe111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!I have done this but it drove me into a deep depression because I tried so hard to make this person realize how I felt but he was never interested.Not because I wasn't pretty.
I think it was more because he just wanted to hang with his thug friends which were all like 10
years older than he was.But I went through this for about 9 years before I finally found someone who loves me.And it's sad to say that,the guy I loved so much got addicted to
crystal meth and now has been in jail for about 3 years.I think now I'm glad he didn't love me.
2006-08-01 18:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's the meaning of the be conscious like to you? Tolerance, letting others do what ever they so choose for to do? that's no longer what love is- love is what a million Cor. 13 says that's - 4Love is affected person, love is sort. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It isn't rude, it is not self-searching for, it is not truly angered, it keeps no checklist of wrongs. 6Love does not take excitement in evil yet rejoices with the actuality. 7It continuously protects, continuously trusts, continuously hopes, continuously perseveres. 8Love on no account fails. yet the place there are prophecies, they're going to quit; the place there are tongues, they are going to be stilled; the place there is know-how, this is going to pass away. 9For all of us comprehend partly and we prophesy partly, 10but while perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. 11When i became a baby, I talked like a baby, i presumed like a baby, I reasoned like a baby. once I grew to grow to be a guy, I placed infantile approaches in the back of me. 12Now we see yet a adverse mirrored image as in a reflect; then we will see head to head. Now i comprehend partly; then I shall comprehend completely, on an identical time as i'm completely time-honored. 13And now those 3 proceed to be: faith, desire and love. however the suitable of those is love. you may replace the international love right here with Jesus and you're able to get your answer. the affection that Jesus has despatched Him to the pass- that's a unfastened present to definitely everyone who gets it-
2016-10-01 09:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but are you sure you love them or do you just like them. Example: Someone you have had a crush on from a distance and doesn't know your alive = Definitely not in love....your just obsessed. Example: Your in a relationship you love them but they don't love you at ALL = then what's the point. It sucks....... but just move on, think of it like this if they don't love me or want to be with me then their lost... and someone better deserves me and my love. Hope this helps GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-08-01 18:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by *♥*Lucky Charm*♥* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this question can only be answered by the unloved person. Like the mother her loves her son but the son doesn't love her back. LIke the spouse in love with the addict but the addict doesn't love the spouse back.
Its up to the lover to decide if they are willing to love, all the while knowing that they WILL NOT be loved back. False hope doesn't count
2006-08-01 18:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by bluemidnightbeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings aren't right or wrong. Trying to make yourself not love is like trying to hold your breath until you pass out.
Behavior is what this is about. Love happens, but when the situation is not equitable, then your choices regarding your behavior is what will matter to you in the end.
2006-08-01 18:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been on both sides of this... I've loved someone who didn't love me at all, and I've been loved unconditionally and shunned it completely.
I'd say yes, it's definitely ok.
It's part of life, IMO.
It's not fun, but there it is.
Besides, if the person doesn't love you back, what kind of relationship will that be in the long run?
A bad one.
2006-08-01 18:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay as long you dont sacrifice the real love you have for yourself, which is the most pratical thing to do.........To love is not expect anything from the one you love except He or She feels the same way...Just enjoy the feeling of being in-love
2006-08-01 18:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋