this girl ive been seeing for two mo. is in constant contact with her ex bf. he calls her all the time and they see eachother. she says they are just friends and actually wants me to meet him. After about a month of going out she starts giving me oral sex and before climax tells me "Thats all im getting''. She then said thats what youll be getting if you wait. She says i have to wait for sex. Well i waited and in the middle of sex she said i haveto stop because it hurt. ??? what is this girl doing???
2006-08-01 17:57:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trying to make you crazy. It is beginning to work. Bail.
2006-08-01 18:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
well... depending on how old you are, 2 months isnt that long. If you like this girl, just give her time and try to feel her out (emotionaly, not physically lol) She may be trying to "Controll you" useing sex, I've seen girls do this before. Or, she may have a ligitimate reason to be this way, maybe she has had some bad experiences in the past if you catch my drift. She may have some sexual issues. If she is worth it, you can give her more time. 2 months is NOTHING I made my bf wait 6, and 4 years later I have no complaints.
Just try to feel out weather she is just messing with you or if she is dealing with some serious issues... she could also still be in love with the other guy, give it time. Talk alot. You know, Get to know eachother better.
2006-08-02 01:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by sandybeachsheets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe her ex is still balling her. Possibly she still has feelings for him and isn't ready for a new relationship. Maybe she can't accomodate to your size because her ex man wasn't that big. Some girls are too embarassed to say this to you. Either way, you're never gonna know unless you ask. Communication is vital here. =)
2006-08-02 14:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by unique2477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing games. her ex is an ex for a reason. if they are still good friends it is a good chance that she is still sleeping with him. and for her to say that she wants you to meet him is for either one of two reasons, she wants to make him jealous or she wants you to be comfortable with their realtionship so you wont question all the time they spend together. DUMP HER if she dont want to get her act together
2006-08-02 01:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by m j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teasing you and in the process pissing you and me the hell off. Get rid of her and find someone without the extra luggage. Good luck! I hope I helped (even a little).
2006-08-02 01:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by *Suga* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't you see the big red neon warning sign? Dump this girl ASAP and send her back to her ex, which is where she really wants to be.
2006-08-02 01:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving you good reason to masturbate and find another girl, more or less in that order.
2006-08-02 01:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by Babs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds flaky... 8-6 her, ASAP.
2006-08-02 01:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by ?princesshousewife? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
messing with you is what is sound like you should let that one go
2006-08-02 01:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to hurt you physically
2006-08-02 01:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by babygurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋