but what do we do now? we are both divorced - both intelligent, attractive, with similar interests pursuing the same degree program - we always laugh together and share the same biting humor - he backed off as soon as his divorce was finalized - so i did too.... should i just wait 4 him to make a move? help - i though this stuff ended when i was done being a teenager!!!
2006-08-01 17:51:37 · 7 answers · asked by excellentneedswork 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bluemidnight - good point. i would rather have him as a friend than not at all - beliebe me - he is one worth waiting for.
2006-08-01 18:03:02 · update #1
Follow your heart never hurt anyone. Maybe it's tryin to tell you something. Don't ignore it.
2006-08-01 18:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by *Suga* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for right now he's probably going through a reality check. After this relationship that just ended was supposed to be a life time commitment and it didn't work out.
He's probably not looking to jump right back in and I would be cautious of becoming the rebound girl.
The best bet would be to give him alot of time and a little space.
Talk to him. Better yet be a friend and let him do the talking. He's gonna have to learn how to trust again--so don't take it personal. Its really not gonna be you its gonna be him.
Go back to the lite conversation and flirting ect. Find common ground, Have lots and lots of patience.
good luck
2006-08-02 00:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by bluemidnightbeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you fell that strong about it then you should make the move...dont lose out on what could be a good relationship...just cuz yall got divorced doesnt mean that you'll be in one your whole life...
2006-08-02 00:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by klee0926 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the first move. Like the movie Last Holiday...dont let life pass u by. =D
2006-08-02 00:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by B3. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, the woman needs to be a little forward. So, maybe you may need to take the first step. Do you cook??? Ask him over for a meal sometime. I'm sure he eats, set it up.... go to it!!! Its up to you, do you want him!!! Or not???
2006-08-02 00:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, go for it. What do you have to lose?
2006-08-02 00:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by Stranger in a Strangeland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya u could wait or just go for it!!
2006-08-02 00:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by cloudblink182 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋