i talked to a guy for 6 months on the phone and online we became really good friends...and then finally i got to meet him last sunday (dont worry i know his cousin and i was with friends in a public place) and now since he met me he quit calling and emailing me its been a week its like he fell of the face of the earth...what is going on b/c he told my one friend that he wanted to go out with me
2006-08-01 17:45:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
one of two things.
1 he was interrested but is now living in fear that you might reject him or be embarrassed that he is interrested.
2 he expected something other than what he saw when the two of you met and now he has decided that he doesn't like you as much as what he thought he would.
2006-08-01 17:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by retrac_enyaw03 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever get hung up on one guy. Move on. Its not the best way to meet people. Go into clubs that do things you enjoy doing, and meet someone that enjoy doing the same thing that you do.
2006-08-01 17:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by nikki_is_the_best2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the meeting wasn't what he thought it would be. Its not the end of the world. Move on. There are other guys out there!!!
2006-08-01 17:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of times guys get nervous once they actually meet the person who they have been talking to for so long...the non direct contact was ok to share feelings...but direct communication scares a lot of guys...give him time..let him warm up! and good luckc
2006-08-01 17:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by kel37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulation.
2006-08-01 17:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is a good guy, then wait for him--but just not too long. Eventually the right guy will come along.
2006-08-01 17:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he got intimidated....
Call him and try to get an answer...
don't go for a direct approach... poke around and see why he isn't talking to you
2006-08-01 17:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by ortegajairodgo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be so quick to judge...maybe something happened...maybe you should try asking his cousin...but if it continues and the cousin says that there is nothing wrong then you should just move on...cuz he could be playin you...
2006-08-01 17:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by klee0926 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be the way you look maybe hes not interested as much because your in person theres alot of resons good luck
love ya all!
2006-08-01 17:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by Kisses From Paris, I love you! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's not interested anymore. Guys are really simple, if they're interested, they will show it. Don't waste your time with someone that won't give you his. Don't chase him, it's not worth it.
2006-08-01 17:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by Lautrec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋