things are really akward between us now, she says that she said no because somebody else asked her out too....and i tried being romantic asking her on the fourth of july with fire works...and she keeps telling me how this other guys was there for her to cry on his shoulders, not to mention she cried on somebody elses shoulders which led to a kiss...i still have feelings for her, but my heart is loosing more blood than i can handle from this puncture.
2006-08-01 17:40:58 · 24 answers · asked by drum_crazy3174 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now I ain't sayin' she a GOLD digger...
2006-08-01 17:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by pseudonym 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she may have lied when she said she had feelings for you (not to make you sad). Some girl feel pressure when a guy says they have feelings for her so she says she has feelings for that boy too not really meaning it. Not all girls are just some what you probably need right now is a (girl) friend JUST A FRIEND to help you get through this time in your life. If you decide to move on then I'm sure you'll find the right girl. But don't look back if you do.
If you stay behind good luck!! Before you decide ask yourself "is she really the one for me or is there some one out there i can share my feelings with better" then I'm sure you'll know in a matter of time. Think about it.
2006-08-01 17:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your young, like your teens, heart break is gonna happen. My last girl friend, of 2 months, broke up with me becuase she wanted to hop around with other guys. It's something you just have to forget about and move on. Like the saying goes, there's more fish in the sea. So don't go wasting your time on one chick when there are hundreds of thousands of others. Just wait and that perfect girl will come around to cry on YOUR shoulders. Don't let one girl get ya down. And if you really had fireworks n all, when you asked her out. It's pretty pathetic on her part that she went with a guy she could lean on, when there was another guy who could show more love that anything, cause going that far just to ask a girl out, is dedication, and if I was a girl, it would melt me like butter. Just remember, your time will come. Don't rush life. Let it come to you. Take care man and good luck!
2006-08-01 17:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mistake was being romantic. That is a no no until you've reached a point where you are in an established relationship. The other guy most likely came off as being just the opposite, which is why she was attracted to him and not you. In short, women are screwed up!
2006-08-01 17:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very simple she lied you to keep you on a string while she went out with someone else and did her own thing. She thinks as long as she keeps you on a hook she can always come back to you any time she wants. She doesn't love you and she probably doesn't love the other guy. She a user and you simply need to find someone else and move on with your life. You don't need her anyway.
2006-08-01 17:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by Kewl__Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though it is hard, you have to let her go. You are hurting yourself more by thinking that you to could have a chance. She obviously wants the other guy. It will be difficult to move on but it will prevent alot of pain. You deserve someone that only wants you and wants to be with you. So go out and look for her. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-01 17:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard situation. great idea about asking her out i wish jacob would ask me out that way! probley a close friend of hers that she just realised that she actually likes him more then u just after she told u that she likes u. love is hard but it'll all work out. i still think its sweet that u care so much about her. if i were her the only way i wud go out with u is if u slip her a note in her locker or email her saying something like "better to have loved and lost than never loved at all" or even better "your the most gorgeous special girl i have ever met but if you want to be with him i won't stand in your way because when you love someone you can be truely blinded and give them whatever they want wether it suits me or not" i wud just start bawling my eyes out if any guy sent me something like that unless it was a gay guy or one who picks his nose and eats it. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-08-01 17:49:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that really sux dude. i know how u feel. u know, there are always more "fish in the sea" and u can always work on the friendship between u 2. but if u hang up on this situation, it may affect your future relationships. hope it helps maybe...
2006-08-01 17:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is saying 'No' the nice way. You may want to back off before she starts ignoring you all together. You may be getting alittle annoying to her.
2006-08-01 17:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep trying the same thing happend tho me and after the tenth time of asking her she finnally went out with me and we are still going out and that was a year ago. so just keep trying
2006-08-01 17:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on...cuz any girl that would give up romance for a "possibilty" is stupid...so just move on...take some time for yourself first and then move on and you'll feel so much better when you find a good girl...you'll be happy that you didnt date that girl...
2006-08-01 17:46:56 · answer #11 · answered by klee0926 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋