guys when your'e ready to break up with your girlfriends do you just stopping calling and answering her phone calls, because i think my boyfriend doesnt want to be brothered with me he hasnt called me in a whole week or returned my phone calls!!!
2006-08-01 17:25:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obvisously in his mind he has already broken up with you..he just hasnt told you yet. Guys also do that if they have a new girl, you're they as a fall back plan.
2006-08-01 17:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by j@mE$ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO i like to be creative when breaking up with a lady. Some may call it mean i call it creative liscensing. I.E call her at 2 in the morning when she is asleep, put her out on the side of the road for running her mouth, In a crowded area so she won't make a big scene. But never just up and not called her back. Maybe he is just trying to take a breather for a moment and make sure this is what he wants.
2006-08-02 00:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by R B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both men and women do this. However some of them are direct.
See some people don't want to hurt the other person, so they can not confront breaking up with somebody. However just because he is not returning phone calls doesn't mean that he wants to break up with you.
It could be that he is upset at somebody else and doesn't want to take it out on you. Or maybee you are in some type of fight and he needs to cool down. However these are not excuses.
You need to go over to his house or confront him in another way. The truth is no matter what is wrong with him you need to talk to him.
I hope this helps.
2006-08-02 00:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by darksphyx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are right. If he is ready to break up with you, he would surely stop calling you. But a whole week without a call doesn't necessarily mean that he's ready to break up with you. There may be other possibilities. You know what I mean?
2006-08-02 00:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One week?! Come on, give him a chance. If he hasn't called in about a month, then you can probably count him out. You're right, some guys do back out of relationships that way. But if all he's done is not talk to you in one week, you're over-reacting. Maybe there's another indication of his withdrawal that you haven't mentioned, but there's no need to worry if this is all that's happened between you. Good luck!
2006-08-02 00:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men never grow up, and that is why we act so childish. They just can't go to a woman and be straight up with her "Look this isn't working out and I don't want to be with you anymore". It's sad but that is the way men are. Most would rather just avoid it.
2006-08-02 00:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by the_world_is_yours44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello? I think he answered your calls loud and clear.
I would move on.
You go girl! Treat people the way you want to be treated. Obviously, he doesnt want to treat you right. Its time to move on.
2006-08-02 00:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by besttobefriends 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are callous like that. I'm honest. I say,"I'm breaking up with you. I enjoyed my time with you and I will value it always. I wish you well. Good bye."
2006-08-02 00:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by solitas777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOme guys do that??
A lot of times, they just don;t want to deal with it. It is hard to d.
Anyhoww?
Are you looking?
2006-08-02 00:29:24 · answer #9 · answered by billyandgaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the way a coward would do it kick his but to the curb and get a real man
2006-08-02 00:34:22 · answer #10 · answered by steamroller98439 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋