We've been "friends" fr like 4 years, but I gotta find a trick to force her to love me. My friends told me to make her hate herself so she'd settle for me. But I don't want to do that. What's another scam to make her love me?
2006-08-01 17:15:07 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her you have money
2006-08-01 17:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Tricks and scams are going only so far. They may make her fancy you but won't make her love you. You should be a man and make a move, I know it's not easy to shift gears from friendship to love but if you want her than you've got to start somewhere. Make the 4-year friendship as a base to move closer to her heart. Flirt a bit, start giving her more attention. Just take it slow and gradual, be patience and remember the term "easy come easy go". Good luck.
2006-08-01 17:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by crystal iceberg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me answer this question with a question...why would you want to trick someone into liking you? Wouldn't you rather be liked, even loved for you and not because you made someone like you? Dont you prefer that person to have a free will about it? That would make it so much more wonderful!
2006-08-01 17:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by AGgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant trick someone to like you. You are a domestic violent man in the making.
1. You cant own a woman.
2. Being mean to her is abuse.
3. And if keep following this pattern you will end up in jail.
2006-08-01 17:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by kelliekareen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically you're a loser and don't deserve her. 'Tricking' someone into liking or loving you not only could probably never happen is kind of a disgusting idea. You want someone to like you because they like you not because you tricked them. That is cheating on the worst thing of all. Attempting to control someones heart is a dispicalbe thing to do.
But try talking to her about how you feel do something romantic. If she doesn't like you like that she doesn't like you, deal with it.
2006-08-01 17:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by almosmullen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends sound like sick morons. You don't sound much better. Why would you want to trick her? Do you hear yourself? You want a SCAM to get someone to like you. If I know her, I will make sure she doesn't come within a mile of you and your friends. You are in serious need of adult guidance, I'm not kidding.
2006-08-01 17:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i a gurl an a stripper so im good at makin people by bull sh** they really dont need so take it from me. act like u dont give a crape about her an she will come runnin. now this will take at least two weeks maybe a lil longer. if u call her a lot (dont) if u see her every day (dont) it sounds kinda harsh but trust me it works on men ive have gone out wit friends to>rule number 1 no one likes two be ignored!!!!!!!!! no one!! do dat for a few weeks then when she does come runnin you will have da upper habd an at like a dic* to her a lil bite an shell be urs! dont go over bord wit being mean jus act like u dont really care its a game if ur willin to play a game to get what u want then shell be wit u! good luck
2006-08-01 17:27:41 · answer #7 · answered by eclipse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don t know about tricking but one thing is sure .....You can get anything in life if you let go your ego . This is inclusive of the ego attached with ....how can I do such a thing ?? I am not like that ?? That is below my diginity etc etc.
The point is if you can detach youur self from that self esteem then everythinng is achievable . point is whether you can think and be like that ....and of course if it would be ?? right if there were to be any such thing in your opinion !!
2006-08-01 17:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by kalki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you know her friends, you might be able to get them to ask her if she likes you. If they tell her that they think she likes you, they can convince her that she must be interested in you. [This could take a few days, weeks, or even a couple of months, but they'll be able to wear her down.]
Did I mention it's not right to "trick" someone into loving you?
2006-08-01 17:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by TomServo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry, but you can't force a girl to love you. Believe me, I've had this friend for 8 years and he's liked me almost all of them and he does everything to make me like him and it just doesn't work like that. She needs to love you on her own terms. Some advice, just don't be pushy, clingy, needy, or immature. I hope I helped.
2006-08-01 17:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by honeybfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, get new friends. How sick to try to make someone hate themselves, that's called emotional abuse. Second, you don't "trick" anyone to like you. Either they do or they don't. Sounds to me like she's smart if she doesn't like you considering that you really dont like her at all. People who like someone care about them and would never do anything to hurt them, scam them or whatever. I suggest you seek out counseling at school before you hurt someone and then regret it for the rest of your life.
2006-08-01 17:23:42 · answer #11 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋