2006-08-01 17:13:53 · 17 answers · asked by thelovebuggy1995 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not my ex I never been with him. He denies his feelings but I don't believe him because his action says otherwise, and no I don't see what I want to see or imagine things. I SEE WHAT I SEE!
2006-08-01 17:38:23 · update #1
You can't force things. It's hard, and the heart will grieve, but you have to let go. I've been there. It took a long time but it did happen. First you have to accept what is, then you have to give yourself permission to move on. Go through what you have to go through, but move on. Soon your heart WILL catch up with you.
2006-08-02 17:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by novalee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that most of us have been through this. Even if you start seeing someone new, it can be hard to leave behind all the memories of a person who at one time meant so much to you. It may seem hopeless now, but you will get over him. If he ever held you back or stopped you from achieving something, you can now feel free to do all the things he never let you do. There's someone out there who will treat you better and love you more than he did.
2006-08-01 17:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by punchbug42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now you think you will never get over him. But believe me you will. As time passes you will feel better and not think of him as much. It will take time though, so keep yourself busy and hang with friends. And if you see him around just try to avoid him as much as you can. I dated a guy for 3 years and my heart was broken after we parted and I felt the same like you did. And now I tell myself and others that it was the best thing that happened to me. I no longer think of him anymore. And I'm very happy. You will one day look back and tell yourself he is history and you don't care at all! Good luck!
2006-08-01 17:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to get over this person? I have a similar problems with my ex I love him very much, and I have tried everything I know to get over him even cutting ties with him. He feels the same about me. But we also realize that we don't work together. We have acknowledge our feelings for each other and leave it at that. We love each other,but know we will never be together, but I also know that if he ever needs a friend I am there for him and I know that he is there for me.
2006-08-01 17:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by Magikfairey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must have been your first...You could try to date someone else to take your mind off the other guy. If you do that, though, you run the risk of remembering the old guy you were with. If you can't get over him, maybe you need to change the way you think about life.
2006-08-01 17:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by ed_boy5249 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i asked a similar q before and got no help for it here...they all say you get over him, but you know what, there is a good possibility that you will end up comparing all other guys to him for the rest of your days...maybe it's because it's true love or maybe no one else is good enough...that's the worse case scenario...been ten years for me and still going strong, time doesn't heal and there is no escape so life goes on...at least you know you are not alone.
2006-08-01 17:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by Roxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will. Just takes a little time.
Time heals all wounds.
Time wounds all heels.
When you find someone better who can appreciate you more, you will look back on this and laugh.
Laughing does help.
So does trying to visualise him something really disgusting.
2006-08-01 17:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU WILL HAVE FEELING FOR A EX, BUT TRUST ME YOU WILL, THERE ARE PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA AND START
LOOKING AT THAT, IT WILL TAKE TIME, BUT START DOING
THINGS THAT ARE FUN, GO OUT WITH FRIENDS, MEET NEW
PEOPLE,THEN YOU WILL SEE THAT YOUR HEART HAS MENDED. GET BACK IN THE SWING OF THING GIRLFRIEND
THERE SO MUCH OUT THERE JUST WAITING FOR YOU. ASK
YOURSELF ONE QUESTION, IS HE SITTING AROUND THINKING ABOUT YOU. ARE HAS HE MOVED ON..
2006-08-01 17:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals most wounds, but if you truly can't get over this person, talk to a therapist or counselor. They will help you move on.
2006-08-01 17:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by Tracy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of something u didnt really like about him and keep telling all about it to ur friends and stuff and after a while u'll start to realize that he's not that great. thats one way to do it
2006-08-01 17:19:02 · answer #10 · answered by crazylilangel_91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋